My boyfriend of 2 years tells me that he loves me but i found his profile on yahoo personals he thinks its funny to see all the women that try and contact him i know he is full of ****.
We have not talked in a week because i freaked out and stared yelling and he tells me that my yelling like that pushes him away what about his yahoo. I cant stand this man at this point but love him will all my heart but i resent everything ive ever done for him and just want to stop crying over this jack *** how do i do that
2007-09-27 05:41:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a loser. Get out and good riddance.
2007-09-27 05:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by lu_dicrous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look...he among many others do these things. They like the hunt and sometimes gets a bit greedy.
Let go and let the guy mature if he ever does. You can thank society and how they use women in ads to make them look like perfect sex objects.
They tend to mislead men and women to think that anything less is not worthy of having. So they then go hunting for the better sports model. Living in a cyber and plastic dreamworld of make believe. Meanwhile women are making doctors richer from unnecessary plastic surgeries. Then when she nolonger is interesting to her man, she is either replaced with a new doll or toy or must go back in for a new overhaul at the doctors office.
Men are not taught anymore about respecting of women. And the woman is not taught to respect the man's role either.
This is what you get.
2007-09-27 13:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Swampmoth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say there will always be some men who do.
"Players" they're referred to as, aren't they?
I don't know if this technique I was told about in a particular self development tuition will help or not as far as trying to get over him. How it goes is; you think in your mind (if not visualise) you and the one you think about a lot with a rope or string attached to each other, you think/visualise about cutting the rope or string and then apparently thinking over and over in your mind something like: I'm not going to think about this person 30 times or so each day for a week or two.
Apparently (although that's a rough description of it) it is meant to work. I don't want to give you false hope though either. Moving on from something I have found difficult myself at certain times in life. Would counselling help?
2007-09-27 12:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda in the same boat but i think it is best that we find someone else that is on the same level you are on even though we may love them we are just huring ourselves even more by putting up with the b.s. we should not just wasting our time with these no good *** so called men love hurts but we have to get over it or we will continue to get our feelings hurt you feel what i'm saying cus i'm to the point where i'm bout ready to physically hurt this man and i dont wnat to do that cus i habve kids to takt care of and cant do no jail time if i did not have any kids he would of been ****** up cus i tired of getting my feelings hurt
2007-09-27 12:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by good12cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if what you saw was all that there is or just the tip of the iceberg.
It sounds like he knows all the right buttons to push to make you feel guilty for calling him on his thoughtless actions. His attempted reversal is a smoke screen and you better find out what's behind it.
2007-09-27 12:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cry all you need to, but remember when you come out of this that you will be a better, stronger person. Men use women as status symbols and to make themselves look or be unnatainable to other women .
2007-09-27 12:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things men use women because they can and secondly when you show someone you love them no matter what they will tend to take full advantage. hard as it may be thats life be strong stand up for yourself and remember when you love someone who doesn't love you the same and does not respect the relationship or your feeling you will be crying alot more. Something to think about.
2007-09-27 12:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, don't blame all men for your loser boyfriend. You have a right to be angry. He's got no business being in the personals. I seriously doubt it was to get a laugh. He's looking. End it and move on from this ****.
2007-09-27 12:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally, guys believe free sex is better than paid ones.
They can loves 2 or more women at the same times. But Women don't.
If he is fooling with them and u can take it, live with that.
If not, leave him. Easy as that.
2007-09-27 12:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Miko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK why are you still with him... it should have been where as soon as you saw it you should have been out.
2007-09-27 12:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋