How come it is so hard to find a good Christian woman in America these days?

Question

there are so many posers or downright fakes even in church! WHERE?

Answer 1

It depends upon what you mean by "a good Christian woman". If you mean a Christian woman who is devout about her beliefs, they're everywhere. I've met many fine Christian women. But if you mean some cowering young thing with no self-esteem who's willing to serve as an unpaid house slave and breeding stock for a bullying man, they're getting harder to find every day, and thank God for that. I've heard some men use the term "good Christian woman" to describe timid, subservient women who are willing to tolerate abuse, and that's just wrong.

Answer 2

Though I am a male, even statistics can tell you women are more WISER than men. Alot of women have "evolved" to see that even Christianity is a male chauvinistic religion as ALL hebrew based religions are, including that of the religion of Islam. To be a "good" christian woman as you refer to would take a totally BLIND woman to the doctrines males have infiltrated upon the loving doctrines of Jesus Christ. Much of what you read in the New Testament is obvious that Jesus would have never been many of the ways he is deplicted because after ALL this person was supposed to have been the SON of the ONE, loving, compassionate, and UNbiased GOD IN HEAVEN. Even Jesus said, and it was not changed by men in the gospels that the Lord in heaven sees all beings as "equals" in the phrase "For those who are the least will be the greatest and the greatest will be least in heaven." Most don't see the truth in THIS but it also included how women are treated by RELIGION.

Answer 3

Morals, morals and morals. Don't judge everybody. But yes, they are fakes even in church. Some of them are there actually trying to do better and still can't help it. It is very hard to find someone that wants the same things you do in the same way you want them. Just keep looking, someone will come along with the same morals and values you have.

Answer 4

Christian values are not taught by the family in most American homes. It is possible to find a good Christian woman in America, but difficult.

Answer 5

The good ones are out there, you just aren't looking in the right places. And not all people that go to church are good people, that stereotype drives me insane!

Answer 6

Hard, but not impossible.

When dating, do something odd or "stupid" and watch the reaction. People's true nature comes through when hit with adversity or caught off guard.

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Answer 7

Always has been.

Matthew 19:17 (Whole Chapter)
And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.

Matthew 6:33 - But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Answer 8

True, but there are few men willing to love her as Christ loved the church and was willing to give his life for her. Pray and ask God to lead you to the right one in his time.

Answer 9

Everyone is just who they are. What you are missing is "Where" the judgments poser and fake are arising!

Answer 10

You need to quit looking for her. You need to pray, tithe your first fruits and give all the glory to God. For he will find her for you, in his perfect timing. Don't rely on yourself to find the perfect wife, let God do it. Just keep going to church and get into a good bible based church if you are not already involved in one. Believe it or not she's out there waiting for you.