I love him, but ive had toys bigger than him, if you know what i mean.
I dont want to hurt his ego or feelings too bad, but a little is okay.
Any help would be appreciated. Its my birthday tomorrow and I think this is the best time, because if i could have anything.. it would be..........
THANKS GUYS!
2007-09-27 04:21:20 · 46 answers · asked by supak464 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fyi : He is great in bed! but its no challenge anymore. Im not a kid, ill be 24 tomorrow. we have been together 5 years. Its killing me to ask this, but i dont know who to ask.
2007-09-27 04:42:08 · update #1
wow seems like ur talking about me kinda.
2007-09-27 05:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, is he good in bed? Does he know how to use what he's got? If he makes you *** then why are you complaining? Plenty of "endowed" guys just use their thing like a battering ram, without any technique thinking only size matters. All they manage to do is disappoint the one they're with and sometimes hurt them. Whatever, if you're not happy with the sex then move on, but realize if you are so petty that despite the good sex you'll throw him away because he's "too small," one day you'll get the same treatment. You'll be too old, and get dropped for someone younger, better looking, or whatever, it's this cosmic thing called karma. But if you just move on and say it's not working anymore, well that's nicer, and maybe nothing bad will happen since you were pleasant about it.
2007-09-27 04:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
>I dont want to hurt his ego or feelings too bad, but a little is okay.
No, a little is not okay. You must understand that it's not his fault, there's nothing he can do about it. Whether you decide that it's acceptable or that it's getting in the way of your relationship, just do whatever has to be done, but make sure you don't blame him for it because that's just mean considering it's not his fault.
2007-09-27 04:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What kind of girlfriend are you? That is so mean, you dont tell a man his thing is small, and u def. dont ask him to get it bigger just cuz its your birthday. I feel you are a self centered girlfriend, and if hes not good enough for you then go back to your big girl toys.
2007-09-27 04:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
you do not tell him that.... that would be the worst thing you could do!!! it would scar him for life, think about his feelings instead of yours for a change. if it's that bad then try doing other things with him to make it more interesting, like watching "videos" with him, play with the "toys" and let him help you, i dont know spice it up a little, but for crying out loud don't tell him that!!! it's not his fault ok!!!!!
2007-09-27 04:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Megan W. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should never, ever, ever, never, ever tell a man his thing is too small. I don't know of any guy that wouldn't dump you immediately. I would make you feel terrible about every inperfection you had if you said that to me, and I'm not even that kind of person. No man's ego could withstand that.
2007-09-27 04:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell him!!!!! It would be a total hit to his ego and he may even dump you for it! You say you love him , but yet you think it's okay to hurt his feelings (a little). That's not right. What if he turns around and tells you what he really thinks of your body? It would hurt like heck right? Do your relationship a favor and over look this "little" problem.
2007-09-27 04:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
The worst time to tell him would be while having sex. So...tell him in the nicest way possible that his package is too small, and then also have an alternative to it being small. Ex. Tell him its too small and then hand him some penis enlargement pills or a penis pump. Since your birthday is tomorrow, he cant grow 4 inches in one day that Im aware of, so have him go buy you a nice toy to use and have him use it on you for your complete enjoyment. ;)
Also, keep in mind size doesnt always matter...its how you use it and hitting that right spot...oh yeah.
2007-09-27 04:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Bad!Bad! Bad! Dont you dare do that!What is wrong with you! Are you sick in the head?It isnt the size that matters he is probally more than you deserve,anyway.No matter what dont say anything,NEVER,it would be evil,morally wrong.Please be better than that,ok good luck!
2007-09-27 04:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by kat 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First off, if you have to refer to it as a "thing", are you even old enough to be having sex?
Second, "I dont want to hurt his ego or feelings too bad, but a little is okay"... so you're saying that hurting his ego a little is okay? You're a great girlfriend.
I say you just break up with him. He deserves a little bit better than you if your priority is his package and not his personality. He can find a girl who loves him for who he is, and you can go back to playing with your toys if they make you happier than the real thing.
2007-09-27 04:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by iarechigz 2 · 11⤊ 4⤋
Well, since there is nothing he can do about it why are you going to tell him this? Are you breaking up with him and this is your excuse?
Your toys don't exactly represent the actual size of the population. Maybe those toys have given you a false sense of reality.
2007-09-27 04:26:33 · answer #11 · answered by remowlms 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋