Last night, I had a dream about someone I know, and speak to regularly. She and I are friends, and while I do find her physically attractive, I am not attracted to her in any other way.
Last night, I had a *very* sexual dream about her. I haven't seen or talked to her in weeks. Today, I can't get the dream out of my head.
2007-09-27 03:15:41 · 6 answers · asked by Deke 5 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
To dream about sex, refers to the psychological completion and the integration of contrasting aspects of the Self. You need to be more receptive and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character. Alternatively and a more direct interpretation of the dream, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fiance. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
Hope this helps a little bit! Good luck!
2007-09-27 03:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jaimee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual attraction and physical attraction go hand in hand. You may not have romantic feelings for her, but you find this friend "physically attractive", and have hidden sexual desires for her. You can be physically attracted to someone without having emotional ties. It's what we call "casual sex". Your dream is just your way of admitting to yourself that you would like something else from the friendship. I'm not saying committment, but something more than just a "platonic" friendship. Good luck!
2007-09-27 10:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lisanne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your second question: the dream process is a very complex thing; in my experience, rarely can they ever be taken at face value. In direct contrast to the conscious mind's tendency to interpret "input" literally, the dreaming mind's tendency is to present a message in a symbolic way.
To understand your dream, you first must ask yourself: what does this person represent or symbolize to you? Only you can answer that question. The next point to ponder is the nature of the conflict: in life, you are physically attracted to her, but are not attracted to anything else she has to offer. Again, only you can identify what this conflict symbolically represents; but it should be tied in some way to who (or what) she represents to you. Once you understand this symbolism, the dream's meaning should make more sense.
To answer your first question: yes. I think it's normal.
2007-09-27 11:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne: YPA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find her attractive but that's where it ends, maybe the dream is telling you that you would like to have a (strictly) physical relationship with her? I'm no pro at this, so it's just my guess.
It's funny how our sub-conscious throws people in to our dreams that we haven't thought about recently - maybe that is its way of telling us that they may be out of sight, but they are never really out of mind.
2007-09-27 10:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your sub conscious. So maybe you don't THINK you think of her that way, but somewhere deep down you have definitely had thoughts of the sort! Maybe you shoud really analyze the dream dear.
2007-09-27 10:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're just horny. ;-)
2007-09-27 14:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jewls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋