She is really hot but kind of old. (40) What should I do? How should I handle it?
2007-09-27 03:05:11 · 32 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've watched American Pie too many times.
2007-09-27 03:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Okay if she is offering it to you and you go with her daughter then must turn it down.... it will really hurt your girlfriend. I think you should keep your distance from here. dont get alone with her because she may try and rape you. You should also tell your girlfriend that she is offering sex to you. she needs to know so she can know to keep distance between yal and not leave yal alone anytime. Your girlfriend really needs your trust. that is what a relationship is based on..
Then again, if you tell your girlfriend and yal get into an argument i'm sure she will hold that against you saying that you are doing her mom and stuff. just be sure and be faithful.... tell the mom to find someone her own age....
GOODLUCK!!!!
2007-09-27 03:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a loaded situation. Are you a minor? That is called a crime in every state of the US and in a large number of other countries.
Ethically, it would be wrong to sleep with your girl friend's mother as you know that doing so would damage both your relationship with her and her own relationship with her mother. You didn't say if the mother was married. so damaging the relationship with her husband might not be an issue.
Also, have you considered that you might be being set up by mom and daughter to see if you are faithful? I've read and heard of weirder things.
But, if you have considered all of this and still proceed and it all goes bad and ends up on a Springer Show segment, please give us all a shout out!
2007-09-27 03:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're in a tough spot.......if she's hot any typical guy would want to do her. But the backlash could be enough to end the relationship with your girlfriend. Unless you'd do a 3 way with the mother-daughter tandem.....whoa....would that be something ?
2007-09-27 03:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it, would you want to risk the relationship you have with your girlfriend and possibly future girlfriends? i say future girlfriends because if i had met a guy that and found out that he slept with his ex's mom while dating his ex, i wouldnt want to date him. and two, if a woman is offering her daughters boyfriend sex, what kind of mother is that? not a very good one. get a life, get a clue, and think about it. its a pretty simple answer. NO!!
2007-09-27 03:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend and keep away from the woman.
Hopefully the reason why you don't want to sleep with her is not just because she's older than you??!
2007-09-27 03:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, Jake. This is how bad personality training starts. You will find that if you compromise your values once, it will get easier to do later. Finally, you end up as a person you don't even like.
Trust me, no good will come from it.
2007-09-27 03:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
terrible...dont give this women the time of day! Its horrible how this mother could betray her own daughter,steer clear of this women becoz in the end u will end up loosing g/f & mother is just playing with u.
2007-09-27 03:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by carlgirl612000 x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even want to consider having sex with your girlfriends mother. This idea of her wanting have sex with you is wildly crazy and if I were your girlfriend and found out one of the two of you would get hurt. You should tell her mother that what she is imposing to do with you isn't what you want because you respect yourself to much and that you respect her daughter to much
2007-09-27 03:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by ikea t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it because think of how it will hurt your girlfriend and I don't think you want to do that and plus she is way to old for you!
2007-09-27 04:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you care about your girlfriend you will stay away from her momma!!
whatever you do... it's not a good idea. not only willl you mess up your relationship with your girl, but you are going to f*ck up ur girl's relationship with her momma!!
it's a bad situation all around!! try to keep it in your pants on this one!!!
2007-09-27 03:09:28 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋