i just want to be loved but even that seems too much to ask.all around me people have their boyfriends/husbands. i feel so lonely. everytime i like guys they don't feel the same. it is driving me crazy. i don't know why. i am a nice person.
2007-09-27 02:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel bad sweetie. We all feel this way sometimes. You will find someone to love you and cherish you. Sometimes, if you really like a guy, then take the first step. You have nothing to lose. Don't fear rejection. It is part and parcel of life. God is with you no matter what. So be strong and be bold. Always remember that you are special.
2007-09-27 02:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by veresh10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in pretty much the same position. Probably you just haven't met the right person. Have you ever been in a good relationship before? When I get down on myself about being all alone, I remind myself that I had a wonderful three year relationship. Someone loved me once...so there should be someone out there to love me again!
Also, maybe you don't want to be with "just any guy." I think that a lot of women don't want to be alone. Some of my friends date guys who I'm surprised they are with (for example, one is an alcoholic, uneducated, and they fight all of the time--yet they are still together!). Maybe you would rather be alone than be in this sort of relationship?
Finally, sometimes when someone has been hurt in the past they can allow their hearts to close off and they subconsciously keep others away. Meditation and/or yoga can help you to relax and be more open if you think this is a problem.
Good luck. Someone is out there for you!
2007-09-27 09:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by quirkyfunnyone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dosen't matter how nice you are. People only become interested in people with ceratin personality types. Nice is boring. Be adventurous, funny , or whatever else but you have to have a personality that is also different from others. Plus it all depends on the people you meet and hangout with. People just don't fall in love at random it takes actual work to get to that point in your life. So just for now focus on having a simple relationship with a guy cuase if you try to push it to far to early in the relationship then that will probably scare most guys off. So go out and meet some new people. Remember to be confident.
2007-09-27 09:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by kbmisfit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way a few years ago and I know right now you have a hard time believing it but someone will come along. It happened for me so I think it can happen for anyone. For now just go out and have fun and let all the guys see what a fun person you are. Talk to guys, even the ugly ones just to build your social skills and confidence and most importantly you have to be happy before someone can be happy with you.
2007-09-27 09:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out and b patient!!! Geez, i bet your really young, simply b/c of the fact that your asking a question like this, enjoy being u, stop rushing things, trust me IT WILL HAPPEN. there r plenty of ppl around u who love you, you are just rushing it b/c of the crowd u choose to be around, and you know why your not finding it??? be you arelooking for it!!! I promise, when you least expect it, thats when it is going to hit you right SMACK in the face!!! and then your going to be all crazy n love, your not going to know what hit u, trust me love makes you do some crazy *** things, omg. it really really does, and sometimes you even regret it. so dont rush it, more ppl care about you than u think.
2007-09-27 09:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by I DONT CARE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess this is what you call not enjoying your life being as single i say girl,,p.s enjoy your single life then the relationship one..once you are in relationship you won't have any freedom, that's what my friends says,,but mine if fine as long as you know how to handle..but i guess just be patients and wait..b/c it always happens that the thing you are looking for will not happen when you wanted to..so all you gotta do is wait have patients..
2007-09-27 09:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a loser -- gotta get off the "pitty train" -- go to the hair dresser and find a new "look" -- go buy some new clothes,
start movin into different groups of people -- do not look back,
only forward and GROW UP
2007-09-27 09:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by de viking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start loving yourself, people are attracted to people that are fun to be with. So, my advice is, check your attitude when you are around guys, don´t complain, be yourself, and above all love yourself, guys will come to you.
2007-09-27 09:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by miki360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...u rlly shouldn't be sooo negative on urself...i'm sure there are plenty of people there who love u!! :) first, stop looking for love and just let it come to u. who knows?? i mean...for all u kno there's lots of guys with crushes on u!! maybe they are intimidated by u!! :) stay positive and good luck!!! :)
2007-09-27 09:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by jade<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋