I have a boyfriend we have been seeing each other for almost 11 months now but i dont know when or how to bring up the sex issue well i think its best to wait for marriage but i dont know what are his view towards it, how can i start the topic please help, because when we kiss i feel his p****is moving in his pants it makes me feel uncomfortable as i dont know wat it means, could he be ready for sex? please answer...
2007-09-27 00:15:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is natural for him to get an erection when he is being intimate with you. If he has not brought up the subject yet, he will eventually. Just be ready to tell him that if he loves you enough, he will wait until you feel it is the right time. Tell him that right now you feel you would like to wait for marriage, but if your feelings change about it, you will let him know. If he truly cares about you, he will accept your answer. If he tries to keep pushing you, tell him to leave, because I guarantee you that any guy that loves you will wait until you are ready!!!
2007-09-27 00:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes what you are doing that is why you feel his memeber moving. Guys really have no control over that so it doesn't necessarily mean he is ready for sex. The only way to find out if he is ready is to talk to him about it. It seems to me like you are not ready and you want to wait till marriage. Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to stand by your views. You have been dating for a while so everything will be fine when you discuss this issue and I'm sure he will respect your views.
2007-09-27 00:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is ready for sex, just tell him that you want it now! Surprise him by going to his bed naked! He will do it right away. He will have an instant erection as it will be his first time having sex. He will ejaculate right into you with a lot of force, making a lot of noise ah ah ah ahh oh ohh ohh eeh eeeh, the bed will tremble like an earthquake.
Don't forget to use a condom otherwise there could be serious consequences later.
2007-09-27 00:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions of yourself and your partner, talking to people with experience, getting prepared and understanding what the first time might be like can help you decide whether you are ready for sex. What won't help you is making the choice while under the influence of alcohol, drugs or pressure from a partner or peers.
Some of the important things to consider that we will discuss are:
•your personal values and goals
•your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you are willing to take
•whether you are feeling pressured
•how clear you can be with your partner about what you do and don't want to happen
•what you want out of your relationship
Having sex can be wonderful — whether or not it includes intercourse. But it can make people feel very vulnerable, and they can get hurt.
Think about how it may make you feel:
•Will having sex make you feel differently about yourself? If so, how?
•How might your feelings about your partner change?
•Will you expect more commitment from your partner? What if you don't get it?
•What if having sex turns out to be different than you expect?
•What if having sex ends your relationship?
•What if having sex changes your relationship to your family and friends?
If you understand and can accept the emotional risks of having sex, you may be ready.
Once you know your own mind, you need to be able to discuss sex -- and whether or not to have it - openly and confidently with your partner. Both of you must feel this is the right time to introduce sex into your relationship and reach that decision without any pressure.
2007-09-27 00:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man, how old are you? If you can feel his p***s moving in his pants and it makes you uncomfrotable because you don't know what it means, YOU are not ready to have sex. If you want to wait till marriage, then wait till marriage. Tell him how you feel. If he cares about you, he will respect your wishes. If he doesn't respect your wishes, he doesn't love you and you don't need him.
2007-09-27 00:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by carisunmomon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It's natural for that to happen. If it didn't then there would be some thing wrong with him. Don't feel uncomfortable. Be happy that he has enough control to not jump your bones. You should talk with him the next time it happens. He probably want to wait too.
2007-09-27 00:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't make anything too planed out, or else its awkward. Just let everything happen naturally. Start kissing her and then explore her body with her hands and things should fall into place
2016-04-06 03:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it moves because it means he is enjoying what you guys are doing, the only way to know if he is ready for sex is by asking him
2007-09-27 00:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with sex, the thing is to protect oneself. But, if you think you can wait for marriage, it's up to you!
2007-09-27 00:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask a question like that then you are way to young to be even thinking about having sex
2007-09-27 00:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋