2007-09-26 23:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by mayor r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh no! a lie can never fix a relationship...
lies - white lies and big ones... they both destroy TRUST and FAITH which are both needed for any relationship to succeed.
remember this too... "secrets however hidden shall eventually come out!"
2007-10-04 21:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by HOPES 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is it that you are really saying???? a lie is a lie, do you justify and accepted white lies more so then the big lies and what really is the difference? is it in the way you tell it. a relationship fixed by a lie means many different things. Showing ones character and how they see themselves.
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2007-09-26 23:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even white lies hurt your partner's feelings. My boyfriend got a text message from his friend that said "hey lets hit up slims (a pool hall) sometime" and my boyfriend responded with "sure" when i asked him "what did your friend say" he told me "oh he hit up slims" Now it may not seem like a big deal but i really LOVE to go play pool and often go to that billiard hall with my one my friends but my boyfriend never takes me cause he doesnt enjoy the smoke (it gives him headaches). So to me that small little lie hurt my feelings alot. Made me feel unimportant and like if he would have told me the real message, i would have asked to gone and he wouldn't want to take me.
But if you can lie about about so many small things, when bigs things come around your partner will question your integrity and probably wont believe you when you need it most. The truth hurts but only for a while. when a lie comes back around, you misused thier trust and that hurts a WHOLE lot more
2007-09-26 23:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good relationship is built on trust. Therefore, lying will not create a good relationship (even withwhite lies)! Always tell your life long partner the TRUTH. Nothing else will work.
2007-10-04 18:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lies will end the relationship eventually.
2007-09-26 23:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies never fix anything- you have to be honest with yourself and others, or your just living a lie.
2007-10-04 15:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by rapger54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying is wrong and i cant fix anything... the only time its ok to lie is when its a little white lie to your children to save their feelings from being hurt... never lie to your partner its sooo wrong to lie...
2007-09-26 23:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by e.kess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duly noted. Happens all the time.
2007-09-26 23:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no white lies.
Only rationales for lying.
2007-10-04 21:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One in a thousand perhaps.
2007-10-04 23:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Celeste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋