Do you believe in such love in Yahoo Answers as Thomas mentioned?
2007-09-26 21:36:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Europe (Continental) ➔ Turkey
I do not know what to say more about this matter.
2007-09-26 22:28:16 · update #1
one of my female contact seems very smart and cultured , and she sounds pretty with her sole avatar picture, I like to meet her.
2007-09-26 22:32:03 · update #2
ok ,Maybe it's not LOVE.
2007-09-26 23:26:41 · update #3
"hormonal and neurological reactions to another person" yeah and the planet Earth is just a rock
Now everybody is a biologist. but nobody seems to know the term pheromones.
Love is what you make it, just like point of view is the glass half full or half empty.
BTW leave the biology lectures to the biologists. Reading one article in cosmopolitan or Serder Turgut article does not make you a love biologist.
2007-09-28 20:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Bobo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, what most people realize as love has more to do with attitudes. People agree in their thoughts and find in each other strengths to complement their own weaknesses, that they feel drawn togther. The two may love each other deeply, but not be "in Love."
I'm a romantic. I believe Love is beyond chemistry. Otherwise all animals could fall in Love, all the way down to insects, and I personally don't believe they do. A couple of folks within this very section have commented on "positive energy," which is something I've heard in person as well. How can that be sensed in words? I don't know. Is that Love? No, but it's certainly more than pheromones.
There are a lot of cute avatars on here. I think Yahoo does that because no one really wants to see themselves as ugly. I mean I got as close as I could to what I look like, but you'd still think I was okay just by looking at that silly grin.
2007-09-27 20:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by The Babe is Armed! 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'm not coming online a lot.. i dont know who thomas is.. but i understand that it's a online love or something like that.. i dont believe that it happens... cause yes you can communicate more through messenger and just ask what u want and show the real you.. yet it's not a replacement for face to face meetings and getting to know one another.. two ppl can like each other a lot online but when they meet, they might not be able to stand each other... and the other way around is also true... two ppl who do not get along online might have the best compatibility when they're together,.. and the best of luck in their life together..
It happens that it works .. i dont deny that... but most times... the online relationships happen to be a factor where one of the two ppl appear not the way they are... maybe a better self... or just as a person they're not.. they might say they agree on something but come to reality life / face to face, they wont be able to agree on that cause it affects a huge part of their lives and their entities..
2007-09-28 15:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ Chloe ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thomas must be joking. Yes of course online love is also possible but they have to meet face to face to improve the relationship. Otherwise it's just 'cyber', not real. But I believe in friendship over the net. I have made some very good friends here and even met a few in person, met their families too.
2007-09-27 06:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by anlarm 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can fall in love over the internet. As Blunt I-run says love is more complex than that and is a mixture of hormonal and neurological reactions to another person, much of it based subconciously on smell, looks etc (that is how we humans decide if someone is a suitable mate or not)
Internet attraction is merely that - an attraction, a crush- they would have to meet for it to be love
2007-09-27 05:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lyns 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may be a affection and impression because of her answers and her attitude in her sentences but you have to at least talk to a person to feel strongly about her/him.
In my opinion love is nourished with the senses so without even knowing what she looks like- avatars are cartoons most of the time and they can be very different from the actual person- I can say it is not love- yet..
2007-09-27 06:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ipek K 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's not impossible to fall in love with a person online but then again, the internet is where one can be anyone they want to be. I've known persons here who act bitchy with their answers and then when you email back and forth, they say it is all an act. I think one said it was his alter ego.
So you better be careful and not base everything by the answers you read, try to get to know them better out of answers or via chat. You probably will tell if you are truly in love after that.
2007-09-27 10:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure if yahoo answers can lead to love unless you talk with the person and email back and forth to get to know them... Since there is no chatting, and talking, and getting to know the person that is involved in answers, it is difficult to say. Maybe he is impressed by her knowledge, humor, wit, or something similar.
Nevertheless, I believe love on the internet is possible , since when you talk (chat) with a person you get to know them. I have a friend who is getting married to a person met online through an online matchmaking company.
2007-09-27 15:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by usourselvesandourcats 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That would only be an admiration, not love. So that is quiet possible. I admire the answers of some people here but I am not in love with them because I don't think of them after I shut down my computer. Love is something obsessional :p
2007-09-27 07:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by :] 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
According to my understanding *pushes back nerdy eyeglasses* love is actually a hormonal play in which the two sides assess their genetical compatibility by each other's smells, which they discern instinctively. Therefore, you have to meet said person in... well, in person, to feel actual love.
The "love" that people claim they feel looking at the standpoint and answers of a certain person may only be called, in what we call scientific terms, a "wishful thinking", i.e. wishing that said person conforms to your standards for "true love". A simple detail such as the real age and weight of said person can be a real repellent in similar cases, where it wouldn't be for the "love" felt after actual meetings.
The only advise I can give to such a person is, again in scientific terms, "Get over it, dude, he/she isn't the person you dream him/her to be."
Of course, meeting the person you're infatuated with is an option, too.
I hope this helps. *returns back to nerdy occupation*
2007-09-27 04:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋