I want a thoughtful answer on this one, in the light of our society's tolerance of a great deal of privacy and personal freedom... Why exactly should we *care* if it seems like we have had an opportunity to sin? Or for you atheists who haunt this place, to do wrong? It applies equally well whether you think *God* is looking (or exists) or not ;)
2007-09-26 19:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Gina C 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
the appearance of impropriety can be as bad or worse than real impropriety.
it only takes one occasion of apparent cheating on your spouse, to damage trust.
it only takes one accusation (even if unfounded) of rape or child abuse or molestation to tarnish a reputation/record/whatever.
so many things just the appearance of something can be just as bad as actually doing it.
and to add insult to injury, if you only LOOK like you didn't, .... theres less likely to be evidence regarding it... because its subjective and all. if it *looks* like you did... then you probably *actually* had the OPPORTUNITY to, so little to no evidence that you did not actually do it...
if someone sees you as a role model, it doesn't take *actaully* doing it to have the effect, if its appearance is observed.
2007-09-26 20:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of who is looking or not looking to see you appearing to be evil or sinning. It's a matter of personal integrity. Are you going to place yourself in situations or places where if someone did see you, they might think you were doing something wrong? Even if you aren't doing anything wrong, why would there be that appearance? You must be dressed immodestly, or in a shady bar, or with your hand in some cookie jar or another. If you are living on the edge, not sinning but dangerously close, then you have opportunities to fall that wouldn't be there if you were standing in good places, doing good things, hanging out with good people.
2007-09-26 19:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Gina C,
From a Biblical standpoint - there is a passage that instructs believers to avoid the appearance of evil-- it is telling believers that how other people view our actions and attitudes matters.
For example if you saw your Pastor walking out of a bar-- did he sin? Will he doesn't seem drunk, he's over the age of 21, so technically he may not have sin- but the appearance of coming out of a bar- can hurt his ability to share with others. For those who choose to follow the Bible and care about obeying God its a reminder that the Bible isn't just a set of "rules" but it is instruction as to how to love God and to show love and consideration for other people.
Hope that helps. Kindly,
Nickster
2007-09-26 19:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nickster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the gift of the holy spirit isn't to be traded off for nothing else on earth! or above! To grieve the spirit by giving in just because we think we might get away with something would cause it to leave us, abandon us and the loneliness of it in our lives could drive us! It's simple! and always boils to the same thing! the ultimate choice we all face is this: do we want life or death!?! It's our own individual choice to make one choice at a time! Let's make the right one! for our sakes! and the sake of the One who loved us so that He gave His only-begotten son to die once and for all so that we could live again! the real life and not just this temporary virtual reality of the life we now have! Agape my friend!
2007-09-26 20:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Terisina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sin is something that comes between you and the guidance of the spirit of God.its very simple. you think to much
2007-09-26 19:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
short answer you shouldnt-trying to live your life through other peoples eyes is difficult and can be harmful to your own development as a person-pal
2007-09-26 19:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by lazaruslong138 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋