I've been with my girl for a year. We broke up in Aug. I tried to move on, but 3 weeks into our split, I saw her out with another guy and went nuclear. I called her that night and we started talking, and it led to us getting back together. We were back together for a week, everything was going well but then it comes out that we both had sex with other people while we were apart. We fought but worked through that too! It's been another week, things have been great, we were talking about moving in together, but today she hits me with "I'm really confused, I don't know if I want to be with anyone, I need to think." We talked about this for about 2 hours (with no progress) ended up being affectionate, saying I love you, all that. Later tonight, I snuck a peek at her cell. There were 2 msgs from the guy she was with while we were apart. She says unsure and she wants to think but she acts as if nothing is wrong with us. I'm leaving for 2 weeks in 2 days; should I give her this time to think?
2007-09-26 19:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by Van Daniels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While you are away, it is the best time for both of you to think things over.
2007-09-26 22:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hint bud. When a woman asks for space, she means outer space and outta here! The fact that she had sex with you while she also scroing the other guy means she still enjoys that part about you but it looks like this other guy offers something more than just the sex. Enjoy the heck out of her for the next two days. Come back in two weeks and look for somebody else. Don't expect her to be faithful while you're gone.
2007-09-26 19:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by darmonx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're the one leaving for 2 weeks, that would anyway give her time to think!
Clearly, she now has 2 options; you and the other guy. She's dead confused into who to choose. It's competition man. I dont think it's the right time for you to sit and wait around while she "thinks". Make a move!
2007-09-26 19:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by tenZ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the 2 points , its wort quoting a funny bumpersticker...
"If you love something , set it free !
If it comes back , SHOOT IT !!
NOT TO BE TAKEN LITERALLY
Yes you are in a sh**ty situation no doubt however you can change it !
As far as you asking should you give her this time to think ,you don't have a choice it seems ! Best advice would be to let the trifling cheater find the door !
2007-09-26 20:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Waterbearer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, give her time to think. if she isnt sure than dont let her lead you on. you should be with someone who is SURE they wanna be with you. sometimes you just have to let things go and if its meant to be then it will work out. but if you dont give her the space she is asking for then things can turn really sour and ruin any chances of being together.
2007-09-26 19:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyMama06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. You don't want her to move in and move out immediately. Give her time to be sure of what she actually wants, or you will end up in a financial and emotional mess!!
2007-09-26 19:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During those 2 weeks and 2 days, she will be humping that dude.
2007-09-26 19:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is a good opportunity. If she really cares she will come back to you.If she does"tdon"t worry about it you will always find someone better.
2007-09-26 19:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by dicovi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while you can! you dont want to get trapped in a comfort blanket. you have to get rid of her now. if you insist on keeping her get another girl... give her some competetion, trust me...it works.
2007-09-26 19:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most girls are really complicated and they themselves dont know what they want so maybe some time apart will make her come to her senses
2007-09-26 19:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋