2007-09-26 18:57:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say there are some people who strive to make someone love them even if it means they are giving everything they have to make the relationship work and trying to win the one over who loves the least. This is not such a good relationship if one is not reciprocating and supporting the other partner. Good relationships do not control, they work together to build each other up.
2007-09-26 19:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That the person who loves the least in a relationship is the one who controls it because there happiness does not depend on whether or not the relationship lasts or not. The one who loves deepely is not because if the relationship were to end they would be depressed, upset etc etc, so in other words the one loving the most would do just about anything to keep the relationship going where as the one who loves the least would be willing to sever the relationship if they see it going bad, or they have the will to end it thus they are in control of the relationship as far as it ending and the one who loves to much....well again theyll do anything to keep it going.
2007-09-27 02:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally true. If you love the least then you usually have the least amount of "things" invested into the relationship. Whether it be material stuff or emotions. Also if you love the least then you're not afraid of being hurt, therefore you have the control because you do what you want. And you know the other person loves you more and well usually that makes that person vulnerable to be controlled. It's sad really.
2007-09-27 02:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by stilletto_killers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is true. The one that is most likely to leave and give-up on the relationship; leaves the other worried on walking out. I had a guy that gave me all the control and it totally turned me off. I was wild and wanting to stay in "my" world. I would break-up with him easily and I was not going to put-up with nothing. Although, I cared about him and was not interested in anyone else. Well, once I seen my relentless ways and the fact that he would not move past me; I slowed down and focused on our relationship. One day it slapped me in the face; I was in "love" for the first time (22 years old) and I was scared. We are still together almost 2 years later and are best of friends.
2007-09-27 02:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. Now that I think of it, it's exactly what i'm living in my current relationship. Geez, good way to put it in words. It's true unfortunately.
My man, has his pride, and doesn't always show me that he really really loves me. I do more things for him than he does for me. And when we argue, i'm always the one crying and apologizing (even if it wasn't my fault). He's the mean one in the relationship, and I guess a real macho.
So yes you're quote is ewxact. SInce my man doesn't love as much as I do, i'm the dork that tries everything to make things change. It's hard to explain really.
Since he he loves the least, he controls the relationship, because everyday I try to do something to make us happier. It's sad.
Thanks a lot for this quote.
2007-09-27 02:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gwen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true , but its never exactly 50/50 as one always tips the scales eventually, and this results in one trying harder , sometimes too hard and that puts the other one off until its too late the relationship is in tatters , you only have to work hard for a balance when you are married.
2007-09-27 02:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree. somehow in a relationship, one will tend to love more then the other. the one who loves more will also give in more and hence the one who loves less will dominate the relationship
2007-09-27 02:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad but True!
The more you love the more you surrender to give the other the upper hand.
To ease anothers heartache is to forget ones own!
2007-09-27 02:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by pardygirl23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just remember it takes two for a relationship. it's a 50-50.
2007-09-27 02:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are right.
one who loves you don't think about your relation with others.
and he least thinks about his relationship because he is having confidence in his relationship more than with any other relation.
2007-09-27 02:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by kumar j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋