ok so in school im getting 3 Cs and one F and progress reports are coming out soon and im gonna get in HUGE trouble. i dont have any good friends and the 2 best friends i have one of them i can talk to and he listens but he doesnt UNDERSTAND and the other one thinks my life revolves around her and is really selfish. i dont really see the point in living anymore but i mean i dont want to give up or die and i cant mope around because people think of me as a positive person and so i really need to get my life back on track. if you have any advice PLEASE HELP ME HERE!!!
2007-09-26 14:59:51 · 18 answers · asked by Hayley♥Brielle 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
study study study that's what i did and i got a's and b's
2007-09-26 15:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
aw, we've all been there and i'm sorry to hear how hard this is for you. about the grades, go to you teachers. ask them if there is something you can do to bring your garde up, even alittle bit, before progress reports. ask them to maybe notice the fact that you particpiate in class and had in homework pretty reliably and you are trying very hard. and about your friends- we've all been in this situation. and its tough, but good things do come to those who wait. don't feel like you absolutely have to have best friends right now. having just loose friendships is fine too- don't hold onto relationships that are causing you any kind of grief. the best friends i'v ever had i didn't meet until the end of high school, and we're still close as ever. don't feel pressured or anything, it might making you lose focus and stuff during classes. really, you just need to keep your head up. if people rely on you to be postive and make the best of situations, then do just that. look at all the good that you have in your life.things will get better =)
2007-09-26 15:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by sparklenfin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are using drugs, get help and stop. If you are not drinking or using drugs, then ask your school guidance counsellor for ideas in getting help studying. Talk privately to your teachers, or with the guidance counsellor there. If necessary, perhaps your parents would be able to pay for a tutor. There are lots of college students looking to make some extra cash, and they do not usually charge a lot. Good Luck, God Bless, and do not give up---ever.
2007-09-26 15:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by D L R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohman. that was me like two years ago. hahah.
as for grades, talk to your parents beforehand.
make sure they know these are NOT your final grades and that you're doing your best to bring them back up.
admit to them that you were still on summer-mode or whatever it was that made your grades drop.
as for friends, that's really all on you.
you can make new friends at any time.
maybe it's time to meet new people.
go out a bit more often, hang out with people, and get closer to people instead of just 'knowing them'.
but remember to bring you grades up !!
don't overdo it with friends.
as for the whole postive person thing.
everyone has their downtimes.
you need to find someone that you're okay with exposing that to.
ii mean, it would be pretty scary if someone was happy ALL the time, right ?
basically, it's all a balancing act.
you just need to keep trying at it !!
goodluck !! <3
2007-09-26 15:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 17:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A True Friend Listens And Are There For You No Matter What. Go to your parents tell them about your grades. Nothing is too great that your parents cant help you with.
2007-09-26 15:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a little panicked about facing your parents after doing so poorly. Yes, they will be upset, but you can get yourself oriented to doing better. Your parents know what happens when you let schooling go and they don't want to see this happen to you. So, face the music and make some changes in what are your priorities here.
2007-09-26 15:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek all the help around u! There is quite a number of help out there. Example , free couselling, free tution. Do not be afraid as WInners are strong ppl who can overcome.
2007-09-26 15:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that im in a deeper hole than you. And Progress Reports don't really count. Its the report cards that do.
2007-09-26 15:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by I <3 My Hamster Smokey! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy tips:
Be yourself. You can't please everybody. Don't let criticism worry you. Don’t compare yourself to other people – at work or in your personal life. In the first place, no one knows what other people are going through. More importantly, when you compare yourself to other people, you always tend to see yourself on the "short end". So this is never a good or helpful thing for you to do. One way to get in touch with yourself is through journaling. The goal is to open up completely to yourself and learn to be your best friend by knowing that the truth (to yourself) will set you free from fear! Practice self-acceptance no matter what. Never do something you're not comfortable with. You'll respect yourself for sticking to your guns, and that self-respect will make you happy.
Understand what it is that will make you happy. Everyone has unique requirements for attaining happiness and what makes one person happy may be very different from what makes someone else happy. Revel in your individuality and do not worry about whether or not your desires are comparable to those of your peers.
Act happy: put a smile on your face right now, and keep smiling. Research shows that even an artificially induced smile has a positive influence on your emotions—turns out that just going through the motion of happiness brightens your mood. And if you’re smiling, other people will perceive you as being friendlier and more approachable. Some people worry that wanting to be happier is a selfish goal. To the contrary. Studies show that happier people are more sociable, likeable, healthy, and productive—and they’re more inclined to help other people. So in working to boost your own happiness, you’re benefiting others as well.
Make a plan for attaining goals that you believe will make you happy. Your mood will very likely increase as your pursue your goal because you will feel better about yourself for going after something you value.
Boost your energy: stand up and pace while you talk on the phone or, even better, take a brisk ten-minute walk outside. Research shows that when people move faster, their metabolism speeds up, and the activity and sunlight are good for your focus, your mood, and the retention of information. Plus, because of “emotional contagion,” if you act energetic, you’ll help the people around you feel energetic, too.
Avoid being alone. When alone, you have the opportunity to hear your own thoughts. This can lead to many worrying problems, including getting to know yourself better, being more in tune with what you like and think, and most alarmingly, having a stronger sense of yourself. These are dangerous and frightening outcomes. Wise woe-mongers ward off such perils early. They learn to lean exclusively on others for all their insights into who they are and what they like – and you can do the same.
Reach out to friends: make a lunch date or send an email to a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Having warm, close bonds with other people is one of the keys to happiness, so take the time to stay in touch. Somewhat surprisingly, it turns out that socializing boosts the moods not only of extroverts, but also of introverts.
Surround yourself with happy people. It is easy to begin to think negatively when you are surrounded by people who think that way. Conversely, if you are around people who are happy their emotional state will be infectious.
Create a calmer environment: clear some physical and mental space around your desk by sorting papers, pitching junk, stowing supplies, sending out quick responses, filing, or even just making your piles neater. A large stack of little tasks can feel overwhelming, but often just a few minutes of work can make a sizeable dent. Try to get in the habit of using the “one minute rule”—i.e., never postpone any task that can be completed in less than one minute. An uncluttered environment will contribute to a more serene mood.
Maintaining your health is another way to achieve happiness. Being overweight or not eating nutritious foods can have a negative effect on your mood. Additionally, exercise has been known to release endorphins that give you a feeling of happiness.
Finally, it is important to understand that you deserve happiness. Those who believe that they are not worthy of happiness may subconsciously sabotage their efforts to achieve happiness. If necessary, tell yourself each day that you deserve to be happy and remind yourself what steps you will take to achieve the happiness you desire.
2007-09-27 05:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by pcgamer1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bill Gates dropped out of Harvard University. Do you think that loser should have killed hiimself. Not only is he the richest person in the world but his company made may milionaires.
Actually you will end up marrying his son in the future as long as you allow your future to unfold.
2007-09-26 15:05:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋