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Well, I'm not really at a point where I feel comfortable to talk about my personal problems yet. I'm just looking to be prescribed some medication to (hopefully) correct my problems.

I'm a 27 year old male and I've had many untimely deaths in my family that thrust me into a place I'm not really ready to be in. I have a lot of pent up anger toward myself for being what I see as a failure at life. I also have anger toward my parents(both deceased) for what I feel was them not looking out for my future. I don't mean to, but I project this anger onto everyone around me, in the workplace, my friends. It's really starting to affect me as I alienate everyone around me. What type of doctor would possibly be able to offer some kind of help until I feel comfortable to finally open up and talk about things?

I'm also extremely shy around anyone I don't know well, so I think I suffer from social anxiety disorder, so a two for one doctor would be much appreciated. ^_^

2007-09-26 14:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by Phaze 2 in Health Mental Health

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I would think you should at least see a counselor to talk about the issues that are bothering you. If it's very clear that it's the deaths in your family that caused your problems, maybe a counselor will be enough.

You may or may not need medication for anxiety and/or depression. Maybe you could see a counselor and if you don't think that's enough; see a psychiatrist for possible medication management.

2007-09-26 14:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by majnun99 7 · 0 0

I agree with the advice that everyone else gave, but I just want to add one thing. I have Social Anxiety Disorder, and I've also had a hard time talking to therapists. But, after seeing quite a few over the years, I realized that different therapists have different "styles", and I didn't click with all of them.

So, if you ever do decide to talk to a therapist, and you are not happy with the first person you see (after a few sessions), find someone else. If you keep trying, you will eventually find a someone who makes you comfortable enough with them to open up and talk about your issues.

Hope this helps.

Best of luck!

2007-09-26 21:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 4 · 0 0

If you're not willing to talk about your problems you are unlikely to just get a doctor to prescribe you anything for a significant period of time that will help you.

You should start with a general practitioner or family doctor they may be willing to give something for anxiety for a temporary period, but you need a psychiatrist

2007-09-26 21:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Librarian 3 · 0 0

I do not think a doctor is going to give you medication without talking to you first. The doctor needs to get an idea as to what is going on with you. Medication only helps a person cope better, and is not a 100% solution.

2007-09-26 22:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You may be able to go to your regular doctor (general practice) I went to mine for post partum depression and she prescribed me something but she did advise me to see a therapist. You may feel shy and not want to talk to anyone but how about you give it a try even if its just once, if you hate it you never have to go back. Its really not that bad, I HATE Talking about how i feel and i dont mind going.

2007-09-26 21:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sherie D 4 · 0 0

consider grief counseling and treatment for your anxiety as a start.

Your family doctor may be able to give you a referral. Also, check out mental health support agencies in your state.

But, please get some treatment. Both grief and social anxiety are treatable. My name is in honor of someone who overcame severe anxiety (in jest, and on her suggestion).

2007-09-26 21:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by mr_fartson 7 · 0 0

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