okay, there's this guy who's been liking me ever since seventh grade. he still likes me. i gave him a million hints that i didn't like him the way he liked me. he's a midget and stalks me. literally. he used to visit me everyday at my locker. he stopped for a while. now he sits with me at lunch. Ugh! i wouldn't mind that much if he actually had some friends. i mean, doesn't it seem a little odd for just one guy to be sitting in a table of all girls? What do you think I could do to make him leave me alone? by the way, everyone in the school knows that he likes me. but if you read other question, i like someone else entirely.
2007-09-26 12:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by Allyson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i'm not being mean to him or anything. if you ask me, i think i'm being really nice to him. maybe that's why he's not getting the hints.
2007-09-26 12:52:59 · update #1
maybe u should approach him and ask him not to stalk u confront him and talk to him maybe tell the counceller at school or maybe u could get together with another guy and maybe he'll get the message just give him the message somehow just dn't be mean about it ;) u dn't want it happening for the rest of ur life ;)
2007-09-26 12:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hint it at him, TELL him. Make sure that he gets the point instead of you thinking you are sending the right messages and hopefully he'll pick em up correctly. If that doesn't work, get a guy friend of yours to do it too, although getting lip from a woman is usually much harsher for a guy.
2007-09-26 19:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be cruel to him. Encourage him to move on and find someone else his speed and tell him it is best that you two don't hang out because you fear he is getting the wrong idea.
If you do it nicely, you have done your job. If he keeps bugging you, go to a female school counselor or teacher (someone that is hip, not an old granny) and ask them to help.
Remember, do not be cruel!
2007-09-26 19:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need to have a real serious talk with this guy, Chloe. Let him know that you want to remain friends...but not boyfriend/girlfriend...or even best friends. Tell him that if he doesn't really back off a hell of a lot, the friendship is threatened, and you don't want to see it end.
Good luck!
2007-09-26 19:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes hints dont work with guys .. talk to him directly
i just hope that u dont hurt him
and by the way .. if u like someone else why dont u talk to this guy about him ? when he knows that you're interested in someone else he'll back off
GooD LucK ^__^
2007-09-26 19:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would sit with your friends and start talking about how periods hurt and/ or other girl things(such as nail polish, head bands, makeup,bathing suits,and/'or gossip). (chances r he won't want to talk about that.) and see if he still sits if that doesn't work. Then say i really love my (your boyfriend's name) and mention it a lot maybe he'll stop likeing u as much!
2007-09-26 19:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him, you don't have to go with him, but just be nice. You don't know what his life is like away from school. So what if he likes you, at least he doesn't hate you. I would rather have 50 friends compared to 1 enemy.
2007-09-26 19:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, hints don't work. You need to up the ammunition.
Poor guy.
2007-09-26 19:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ben Reilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go annoying guy!
after the girl gives me a few dozen hints, i give up and go away with my tail in between my legs.
i never thought to haunt her forever with my irritating presence. what a great way to get revenge on a spiteful chick whose told me a million times that she doesn't like me. i think i have a new hero!
tough luck honey. suffer his desire. suffer his desire.
2007-09-26 19:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Annoying guy admirer?
Oh, are you? Then stop it. It's not nice to annoy others.
Peace!
2007-09-26 19:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Vincent Van Jessup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋