my son is fifteen and i found diapers in his closet and when i asked him about it he told me that he likes to wear them and pee in them i looked at his computer and he had pics of kids and adults in diapers should i do
2007-09-26 12:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
There are actually many people who have fetishes for diapers. It does not mean he is "sick"..just that he has found something that excites him. Likely, much to his embarrasment..he found that you fouind out.. There are thousands of differnt kinks out there. ..wearing diapers is one of the less worrysome kinks.
2007-09-26 14:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with kgirl, whats the harm its just a diaper. I would take him to get counseling and make him wear a diaper to the counseling to see how embarassing it can be and if he wants to continue then so be it, like I said, its just a diaper it could be worse, he could be into drugs and alot of other stuff.
2007-09-27 19:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by xxxxxxxxxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certain things about people that is completely not understood. There are many people who have fetishes and quirkiness that the majority of society does not understand. I would definitely take him for counseling and see if this can be helped. If it can't help him, it may help you to understand more about who he is and why this is happening. If there is no clear answer then perhaps it will help you to accept that there just is no answer for this and ease your mind that it is not something he or YOU can remedy. Perhaps counseling will give you peace of mind and arm you to better deal with him and ensure that your relationship continues to thrive as parent/teen and this doesn't somehow alter your opinion of him. Best of luck to you and your son.
2007-09-26 19:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by ursobustedmr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 15 also, and i have never heard of any of my friends wearing diapers...if you feel it is a serious problem then go to a counselor and try to get help. but if you have no problem with him wearing them, i dont really see the harm in him doing it, but it is kinda weird...
2007-09-26 19:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by brittanypaige10 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is a fad. I chat with a teen girl that is into wearing diapers. It is weird, I know. He will outgrow the fad eventually.
2007-09-26 19:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay first take his computer away and then sit him down and have a talk. Explain to him that if he wants to wear diapers he'll have to be treated like a baby. You'll feed him, make him do the whole bottle thing, put him in a crib, not let him talk, pinch his cheeks and have to not be left out of your sight.
Now if he says "No way" and still conuties to wear diapers, then start treating him the way I just discribed. He will no like it if he said "No way"
If he says "Cool" then treat him like one but embarass him infront of his friends. Say "Oh does somebody need a changing?" and pinch his cheeks. He'll get tired of it.
After you stop the whole babying thing put him and counsling for a few months and see what happens. Good luck!
2007-09-26 19:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋
This is something called Adult baby syndrome, it is an actual diagnosible condition. Instead of condemning your son for his actions, try to listen to him and understand him, otherwise it could be emotionally devastating to him. You could take him to counseling, but it may have no effect on his desires and supressing them more could be damaging.
2007-09-26 19:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Wendee Byrd 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's a sexual fetish. Sometimes they like a "nurse" or "nanny" to change the diaper.
2007-09-26 19:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Go Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boy is getting caught up in some dangerous, mind-warping stuff on the computer. The ONLY way you are going to rescue him and bring him back from the edge is pull the plug on that darn computer. If you don't this kind of stuff is going to get a serious hold on him and alter the future course of his life forever.
You have to do a real intervention here, and even if it means a big confrontation with him, this is a battle that for this kid's sake you can't afford to lose. Get professional help into it if you have to.
2007-09-26 20:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋
let him wear diapers it's just a fetish. at least he isn't doing drugs.
2007-09-26 21:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ben C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋