I shall ask you all the same question I asked the LGBT section:
Which do you think is worse, being 14, out and gay, never having sex and only making out once or being a 14 year old sexually active pregnant girl (all the girls in my class think I'm the worse one...)?
2007-09-26 12:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Being 14, too dumb to use contraception AND too dumb to do something about it when the inevitable happens - the last thing such a person should do is reproduce.
Your only fault is that you appear to feel a little guilty about your preferences. Drop that, and go have fun - what's the harm? YOU won't get pregnant OR catch an STD!
CD
2007-09-26 12:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Neither of you is worse, and neither of you is a bad person. She is going to have a very difficult time because of decisions she made. You are also going to have a difficult time in life because of your lifestyle, I'm not saying it's right but a lot of people don't agree with your lifestyle and feel it's immoral. I also think it's a little early for you to be determining your sexuality. I don't know you but your still pretty young and you say you havn't even made out with anyone. You may make-out with a girl for the first time and decide it's not for you. You also change a lot through your teenage years so you could wind up being straight or bi. Again, I think it's a little ridiculous you burst into tears. It's going to be a long time before your looking to start a family and laws and things could change by then. You could also have a guy friend get you pregnant if you can't adopt or do sperm donation. Personally I don't agree with gay people adopting. I think it's kind of selfish of them and I think there kids are going to have a difficult time going through school unless you live in a very liberal place. Kids get made fun of for a name that's different, the clothes they wear, how they talk, imagine a kid having gay parents.
2016-05-19 03:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be immoral sexually when you've never had sex?
You're definitely not the worse one. Fourteen year olds should not be having sex. At all. I feel sick to my stomach thinking about her being pregnant. The poor kid. (I mean the baby, not her.)
2007-09-26 12:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that either of those things are immoral. i think that having sex at age 14 is a pretty stupid decision, considering the risks (which she now has to deal with), but it's not "morally wrong" if they loved each other. i still wouldn't do it though. and go ahead and have whatever sexual orientation you want. but realize that you two girls probably have more in common than you think, you're both looked down upon because of your sexuality.
2007-09-26 12:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by whaddyaknow? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Easy answer to this one.
The pregnant girl, the other girls in your class (who are probably sleeping around too & picking on you to hide their guilt) and you, are all wrong. Because none of us is supposed to judge the other. Only God can do that. Ironically, God loves you, and the pregnant girl, and the other sluts, so much that he gave his son up for all of you, and me.
As for who is more or less moral, the Bible condemns homosexuality and fornication outside of marriage both.
So, you might have to go to a tie-breaking sin or something...
And as for the pregnant chick, she's also an idiot. There are free condoms and low cost birth control methods out there everywhere. Anyone who gets pregnant "accidentally" is either lazy, stupid, or probably both.
2007-09-26 12:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your gay theres is no problem. It's the stupid 14 year old girl being sexually active who's stupid and immoral. I bet she's a "Christian" as well.
2007-09-26 12:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Misfit_101 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wondering how you feel about this? I think you are not exactly sure. Am I correct? I was under the impression real gays and lesbians didn't care what people said about their lifestyles. If you do not think it is immoral to be a lesbian why do you ask us? Why do you care what the religious people think?
2007-09-26 12:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I saw a report where a 10 year old said she started having sex at NINE .
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2007-09-26 12:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both forgivable by Jesus and He is also able to impart the Grace needed to live a holy life.
2007-09-26 12:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by A Voice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either of them is immoral.
P.S. You should be less judgmental. For all you know that girl could have been raped.
2007-09-26 14:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by jetthrustpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋