Okay I met my now fiance's brother before I met him and when we first meet we were talking and then lost contact but it was never going to turn into a relationship but then years down the road I meet my now Fiance and after dating for about a month I found out that that was his his brother but it didnt bother me at all and now 2 years down the road my Guy are still together and wonderful but I just found out that his brother is getting married and I was nominated to help plan everything and for some reason it is bothering me dont get me wrong I love my Fiance with all my heart and soul and would never leave him but can you tell me why I feel this way about the wedding.
I would really apreciate it thank you.
2007-09-26 11:57:24 · 6 answers · asked by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same reason i rejoiced a little on the inside when one of my old best friends (guy) got divorced. not that i wanted him to be sad (he is much happier without her, he says) but that i didn't want him to be married. don't get me wrong, i'm happily married and my friend and i NEVER dated (i even dated his cousin), but for some reason (*cough* *cough* jealousy *cough*) i didn't want him to be married. there was always that "What if" in the back of my mind, and i knew if he and i were both married it would never happen. and the girl was awful!
2007-09-26 12:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by hh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of it is strange... how ought to you not be his pal in case you nevertheless love him :) being recommend to him may well be strange for my area. buddies are significant in existence. My previous love continues to be very close in my coronary heart... we see one yet another at times,perhaps a pair of times a 12 months at buddies in common applications and we constantly have an incredible time. We found out that our breaking apart on the time grow to be the main suitable element for our friendship and actual i'm happy we did. wish you will sense an identical in 20 yrs an element to becoming up is relationship and breaking apart, you should be mature on the subject of the breakups and which will help you develop. wish it incredibly is clever. i be attentive to that it is problematical on the commencing as much as basically be buddies once you like somebody... took me some years earlier the discomfort went away yet he in no way knew i grow to be in discomfort. solid success
2016-10-20 02:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a refreshing idea...be adult about it. We all have feelings that are neither right or wrong - just there. COPE. Learn it's going to happen the rest of your life, off and on and LEARN to DEAL with such situations beginning now!
Grace
2007-09-26 12:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just jealous. Some times we get jealous even when we're happy already.
As long as you don't show it, you'll be fine. Just remember it's what you say and do that counts, not what you feel.
2007-09-26 12:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that's weird, my grandpa was dating my grandma's aunt, then he started dating my mom's mom
same with my social studie steacher last year, his dad, dated his wife sister, then he started dating his present wife
2007-09-26 12:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont get jealous... you are just ready for your wedding to happen... don't worry about them.. your man is better anyways..........
2007-09-27 04:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋