Rape Dreams?

Question

I'm 16 and have never had sex, I keep having rape dreams. Like I will b walking to school and somone will attack me. Then i will b at school and Someone will attack me and drag me in the bathroom and rape me. Then I will ask the person y and he will say u brought this on ur own U should have not have trust me. I have never been raped. Or molested

I have been having this dream for 2 weeks one night after the other.

yes I feel alone

Answer 1

Maybe u should talk to someone to help understand.

Answer 2

The question I would ask you, is whether something has occurred recently that made you feel betrayed or violated? Not necessarily sexual in nature, there are any number of things that can happen that cause people to feel violated..... For example, has someone you considered a trusted friend betrayed a confidence?

Answer 3

it's probably your curiosity- your a virgin, you probably fantasize about it. anxiety- because of the pressure on young women to have sex at an early age (or your Friends are all doing it- your anxious about it) guilt- because women are conditioned to think "sex is dirty," therefore fantasizing about sex through rape takes the guilt away.(even though it seems unpleasant....my best advice to you it to get comfortable with your sexuality- (not necessarly have sex, just realize you are becoming a sexual being, and that it's ok to think about it in a pleasent manner.

Answer 4

maybe your feeling scared about something
like walking to school alone
if you keep having the dreams i would
talk to your counselor or someone

Answer 5

Maybe you feel alot of fear in your REAL life?Not to do with rape,just in general?

Answer 6

I really think you need to talk to someone. There are numbers you can call and its free and you dont have to tell them your name.