Ok im christian but....im bisexual Or atleast i think i am, i say i think because i dont noe if its a phase i'm goiin thro like some gurls say &&will get over iit, but anyways no one knows that i am &&i noe its against god. What should i do?? i really need help from other christians.
2007-09-26 09:57:54 · 28 answers · asked by NeNa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
hit the altar and pray
2007-09-26 10:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alberto Inestine 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋
I think that our sexual desires are just like any other instinct we would have to do wrong. Like what if you felt the need to lie about stuff all the time? Or had some problem with stealing? I don't think that you should treat this any differently. You would pray and ask God to bring it to your attention the times that you are having those thoughts and then push them out of your mind and ask for forgiveness and the strength to push them out the next time they come. I mean, I know the way i just described that makes it sound way to easy, I know that its not. And you shouldn't expect it to be. You could also take up something to help relieve the tension from working that out of your life... such as... some form of exercise, an art... etc. And you probably should seek counseling from a pastor or anything official in your church.
Whatever you do just don't talk yourself into thinking that it's ok to act on those thoughts. It's when we start justifying our sins that we get ourselves in trouble. And dig holes bigger then we can climb out of on our own.
Good luck! God sees your heart! Your desire to please Him, pleases Him!
2007-09-26 17:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is no different than any other sin. Compare it to pornography, once you open that door and decide in interests you, you start having a problem with it. Repent, (which is to make a complete 180 from your ways), and don't do it again, lest a worse sin come upon you.
Your flesh is evil, and it is interested in what feels good. There are plenty of things that are the same way.
Research this: Back in the day, they used to pack frozen blood around razor blades to kill wolves. They would find the frozen ball of blood and lick it until their tongues were numb and even lick the razor till they ended up choking on their own blood. That is how sin works too. You become numb to things as the sin gets worse, even to the point of blindness.
2007-09-26 17:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Adopted 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm curious how old you are.
If you're in your early teens, you're facing typical biological changes that come to every teen that bring confusion and pressures about your identity. That is not unusual.
What you need to understand is that as your body is developing, it neither knows nor cares where it's pleasure comes from. It's up to our minds (our soul) to direct or control the physical urges that arise within our bodies.
The lusts of the flesh, the lusts of the eyes, and the pride of life are constant battles until you settle in your heart that you will follow Jesus through thick or through thin, and that He will be your Lord (boss), not just merely your savior.
I think that you are NOT bisexual, just that your starting to mature into a young woman (I am still guessing that you are in your early teens).
Use this time of your life to explore your spiritual side and learn exactly who you are IN CHRIST.
God bless you as you face these challenges, and may His Spirit guide you into all Truth.
2007-09-26 17:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by no1home2day 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you should really take the advice of anyone who says to talk to a minister and pray about it. Those who say you were born that way are liars. they would say child molesters and murderers were born that way so its normal- but it isnt. We all have struggles and challenges in this life and Jesus Christ will help you through it. And your life will be much better afterwards. I hope you do the RIGHT thing and God Bless.
2007-09-26 17:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not a christian but I have something to say, in my major of study they giv us some firm proofs that no one in the world is bisexual becouse of humanity. Its all about your self, the best answers are given to you, prey and think about the truth that you aren't like that, god never puts a strong desire like that in you and then speak against it, to avoid it.
2007-09-26 18:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by MAN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's okay Ne NA...it's just a spirit of homosexuality. You may not have it or you may be just being oppressed by it because the devil wants you to think you are. Just don't give in to that and rebuke him in the name of Jesus.
Bind that spirit...and come against it in the name of Jesus.
If you continue to stand on the word of God it will go away.....
Pray about that and ask God to take that from you, so you won't be taunted with that situation and you can continue to walk blameless before him. Maybe even you could take up a fast. whatever He wants you to do...
But I'll pray for you and you will be removed from that. Just speak that into your life. (that you will be removed from it)
Go in Peace....
And I love you in Christ :)
Your sister BLI
2007-09-26 17:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by BLI 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you want a truly objective opinion on the matter, why in the hell are you directing your question towards Christians? You're basically gonna get 50 "just pray!" responses.
2007-09-26 17:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is a sin for a woman to have sex with another woman, or a man to have sex with another man. It is also a sin to have sex outside of marriage.
If you are a Christian, the desire of our hearts should always be to follow God, not our own lusts. That doesn't mean we always are perfect, it means we truly want to put His will before our own.
If you go to God and ask Him for help, if it is your foremost desire to be pure and holy, He will help you in this. How, I don't know. But I do know He honors a person who desires to walk in a righteous path.
I am a bible believing Christian. You may get other answers....but you did ask for a Christian answer. May God help you and protect you, in Jesus name.
2007-09-26 17:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Esther 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Pray about this. Ask God to examine your heart. Ask Him to lead you down the right path.
2007-09-26 17:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by biggestjesusfan, † Cat P.W. † 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hon-you really should read your Bible and truly committ your life to the Lord Jesus Christ. Ask Him to be real in your life. Or at least go and talk to your pastor if you can't find your answer here.
2007-09-26 17:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by fairgirlbluezap 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋