life is too hard?

Question

i dont know what happend too my confidence it just went too the gutter today. i went too school and its just like right infront of me everyone was bragging on their relationships and their freinds and social life and money and jobs and all that good stuff and then i see happy couples kissing right infront of me, its like WTF, then i just lost my confidence......its like now im going too be single forever, i didnt really mind that before but now its like i need too find someone. but i also need too get my life in order due too my severe brokeness is limiting me, i just have so many voids in my life right now i feel like breaking down and crying it seems its never going too get better its never going too stop and life is going too continue too beat me down, i already have enough problems on my plate too worry about and now you can add lonlyness too that, god i cant wait until i die, i hate this life

Answer 1

So many people feel a void in life--and they fill that void with all sorts of things--drugs, alcohol, relationships, anonymous sex, work, sports, TV, entertainment, gambling, shopping, stealing, cheating, lying, arguing, eating, sleeping and all sorts of other things.

You say that your severe brokeness limits you--brokeness can not be healed by a relationship with another person.

What you need is a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus came to save that which was lost, restore that which is broken, lift up the brokenhearted and heal all those who have great needs.

God loves you and wants the very best for you. Ask God to reveal himself to you and help you to believe in Jesus as your savior. Ask God to forgive you of your sins and give you hope and peace.

I am praying for you and want you to have hope that God exists, know that God loves you and that life is empty without knowing our Creator and understanding why we were put on this earth.

Answer 2

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The youth of today have it pretty hard.

There is a better day for you young man. Loneliness is one of the most prevalent problems in the world today. That is why the bars and taverns are full. People looking for friends and companionship.

There is someone out there just for you. God made a companion for you. He said it is not good that a man should be alone .

Don't let this get you down. Its hard right now but when you meet your mate it will be worth the wait. I will ask the Lord to answer quickly for you...
Like I told my son. Its like fishing. Go to where the type of fish you want to catch are. He wanted a christian girl so he started looking in the churches..and found the girl he wanted.
They are now married...

What kind of girlfriend/wife do you want? Go where that type of girl is. She will be there waiting just for you.

Try it.

Answer 3

Let me tell you how important you are....God sent His only Son to die for YOU...so that you could have eternal life. That shows your worth...a LOT! There is a void....a hole in everyone's life....and the only thing that can fill that hole is God. He created us to be wired straight to Him...nothing else will satisfy. Actually, you are in a good place because you have MUCH NEED.....that is where God can reach you the best because you know you cannot do all this "life" by yourself. People that have everything going just right don't know how much they need God. You know. There is a promise God made in the Bible that you can claim and pray back to Him. It is 2 Corinth. 12:9 and says "My strength is made perfect in weakness." So.....we don't have to do "life" all by ourselves. When we feel weak....we just need to ask God for strength and He will give it because He promised. Did you know that God cannot lie? (Titus 1:2) I will pray that God will put His loving arms around you and make you strong enough to handle whatever problems you are facing. Hang on to Him...He loves more than anyone EVER could!


† On-call Prayer Warrior †

Answer 4

I don't know if you'll want to hear this... but I believe in my heart we are each created for a purpose...and yes...life gets lonely. If i could...I'd ask you to look at Ecclesiastes...I know...bible book...but when i was an atheist...that was the book that spoke the most to me...most surprising place for me...to see one of the "hero's" of the bible actually say "I hate life". and then the rest of the book was a very very deep introspection...looking for a reason to live.

If I could ask...I'd ask you to perhaps read that one book from the Bible...and if possible, maybe even the Gospel of John, for there, in there is a story about a love that was beyond anything I could have imagined. Especially, when I put myself in the story, and said...everything Jesus is about to do...was for me.

I'd like to offer to encourage you if I may. The stamps for email are free. And so's any advice I may offer.

† Traveling Prayer Warrior †

Answer 5

You were right when you said you need things in order. Make a vision (plan) for yourself, and follow it. Such as education, then the job, etc.. You want to be settled before you even think about a relationship. You are important to Jesus. I hope you understand what Bethy 4 Jesus said. It is soooooo true.

Answer 6

What you need to do is motivate your self. Tell your self that you can do these things. Make a list of what you want to accomplish. Don't put them in a specific order. Put them in the order that they come to your mind. In that order, go out and complete these things. Failure doesn't mean something is never going to happen, it just means it will take time.

And try talking to someone about your problems. A friend or family member will do.

Cheer up!

Answer 7

Build your confidence by knowing what you are good at and continue working on areas you feel offer the most value. Other's opinions are just that; other's opinions, and should have only the value of what they mean from your own perspective. Don't dignify them by attributing more weight than they deserve.

p.s. "To" is used when applied to direction, "too" is used as a substitute for the word "also."

Answer 8

When you get a little older you will see the facts of life. There are social groups and the winners are putting you down . Don't try to suck up to them ...you will always lose. Find a friend who was raised as an outcast like your were. Try to help others to learn the secrets of life as you see more situations.

Answer 9

I know how you feel. BUT you're still in school, you have so much time to find a girlfriend. I'm really looking forward to college. I guess just hang in there. Just know that you have so much to look forward too. Once you graduate, your life will completely change and you'll actually be able to have fun.

Answer 10

Prayer of the shelter - upward push against Anthem For the Underdog - 12 Stones Apathy is A Deathwish - tale of the twelve months Our Time is Now - tale of the twelve months awaken the unvoiced - tale of the twelve months 5 Agaist the international - tale of the twelve months