ok lemme make it more clear. i really like this guy, and i think he likes me.. but he's my bff's ex. shes gone out w. every guy ive liked for the past 2 years but never had the courage to talk to. now shes going out with another guy i liked, and i really like her ex. she says she doesnt care, but idk if she does or not.
2007-09-26 07:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Kelsey C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First wether or not she says she does not mind she does.
I think that that is too much of a sticky situation to get involved in, you need to ask yourself if your ready to handle all the jealousy and contention that comes with.
This also raises questions about your friendship, before she gets involved with these guys, is she even aware that your interested in them and IF so, then you need to evaluate how much of a friend she is??
I'm not saying you should drop her im saying you need to evaluate.
2007-09-26 07:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by mitijan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter whether she cares or not? Apparently, she's had no regard for your feelings when she's dated every guy you've liked for the past two years. If he's an ex, then he's fair game. If she complains, remind her of how she's confiscated all the guys you've liked. Better yet, maybe you should find another "best friend".....
2007-09-26 07:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take control of your own relationships and happiness and stop letting this friend have so much power over you.
You like the guy, go for the guy. You'd rather have a friend sliding up to every guy you are crushing on, that's your decision. It'll never get better unless you take control.
2007-09-26 07:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Erad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 rule: Never, ever date any of your best friend's ex's. It doesn't matter if you feel an attraction or if they have an attraction towards you. Even if it's a year ago since she's dated him or ten years. Brush it off and find another guy.
2007-09-26 07:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~JUST ME~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. Even if she says she doesn't care, I promise you deep down she does. She will feel betrayed by it and your relationship will suffer for it. No man is worth that. Set your sights on someone else, and be a loyal friend.
2007-09-26 07:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to you should. If she's going out with another guy i bet she doesn't care.
2007-09-26 07:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having asked your friend if she cared about your intentions with her ex, and she said "no" she didn't care, I'd say all is
good....go for it.
2007-09-26 07:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by karonj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the worst that could happen is that you so called bff wont be your friend no more.. shoot i did that and i'm still with the guy and he's my bff's ex.
2007-09-26 07:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by army angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. shes taken now so its your turn. and dont listen to the sloppy seconds comment. if you like him you like him. everyone gets someone's sloppy seconds. its better your friend than some random chick.
2007-09-26 07:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your the better girl for him, then date him. Unless their trying to work things out
2007-09-26 07:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋