ok so there was this guy who was always really flirty with me. he always caught up with me in the halls & would nudge me all the time & would get jealous when i mentioned other guys around him [so i stopped for his sake], etc.
well one day he just got mad at me out of no where. i honestly dont know what i did. i'm a really nice person and i'm never mean so i dont know what i did to get him mad. but he's absolutely not talking to me anymore. he blocked me on aim & doesnt catch up with me in the halls anymore & just refuses to talk to me! so one day i caught up with him and i tried to see what was up & i apologized [on more than one occasion] and was like will you ever be unmad at me? and he was just like no.
but lately he's been walking next to me in the halls again but if i say somethig to him he ignores me. i got a smile out of him today but he's still mad & now it's been 2 weeks and i'm really sad.
so how can I fix things? think he may/can/still does like me?
we're 16
2007-09-26 07:16:14 · 7 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have tried asking him what he's mad about. he wont tell me. and we're friends with the same friends that are guys so i tried to get them to talk to him and he wont tell them either. then they told him to lay off of it and he didnt really say anything. i think he may just be too proud to apologize for being an idiot?
i think that might be it because whatever i did must be minor if i dont even know what it was and he wont tell anybody and two weeks is too long to be mad over something like that.
how can i get him to talk to me
and thanks everyone.
2007-09-26 07:24:35 · update #1
also i dont think he's playing games. he's shy around girls. he's never had a girl friend so he's not a player or anything.
2007-09-26 07:28:22 · update #2
well it sounds like ur well on ur way to fixing things. keep doing what ur doing. if he really likes u he'll get over it. watever it is that u did. U just have to keep working on it. if u like him then u shood tell him. but if u dont liek him like he likes u, it might seem like ur leading him on. so b careful.
2007-09-26 07:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Just like Marie Antoinette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both too young to be so worried.Why did you say you were sorry if you didnt know what you did?If you had done something youd know what it was so maybe someone said something false about you to him,if he is listening to a rumor then he isnt very mature (but you are so young anyway who is mature at 16) or that into you(Im sorry)If you honestly like him tell him you really need to talk and he needs to hear you out,if it fails at least you tried.Theres so much time for you to date so you have fun,dont get hung up on these things!:)
2007-09-26 14:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be very honest with you don't think you deserve the guy......It's just a strategy he is playing as you already did mentioned that he is really flirty with you. This indicates that this is the style/nature of the guy. He shouldn't be angry at you especially when you think you haven't done anything wrong. He is just trying to gain your attention which i think he has succeeded too.
2007-09-26 14:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to know what he is mad about and then try to fix it. Without knowing anything, how can we start? There are many ways of finding out what he is mad about you. What you really can do is to ask your friends to ask him in a nice way.
2007-09-26 14:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to play this game? Because that's exactly what he's doing -- playing games. First he flirts and then ignores you. Why not find someone who can be consistent and someone you can rely on? Stupid games are for little kids. He hasn't grown up yet. Don't join in on his fun.
2007-09-26 14:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i got so many girlfriends that i forget to say hi to sum of em at tmes, and they think im mad at them becauzse i dont say hi, i think females tend to read peoples emotions too hard and read them wrong....i think
i dont know ask him wats wrong again to spur conversation and let him know that u really like him in a bf gf way (if u do,) trust me, im a guy, he wont get upset or anything,
(hes probably mad because u havnt asked him out and he may think that ur playin wit his emotions)
some girls are evil like dat...
2007-09-26 17:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kinda 2 late.
2007-09-26 14:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋