me and my fiancee are getting married soon. and i used to online cheat on her. and i was wondering if that still counts as real cheating. i have never met my fiancee or "the other girl" in person ever. i have never kissed them, or anything. and yet, my fiancee still gets mad at me for that. why? its in the past. we cant change the past, only concentrate on the future. so whats happening here?
2007-09-26 07:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 21. my fiancee is 18. i live in california. she lives in canada. "the other girl" lives in chicago. and is much younger than me.
2007-09-26 07:18:47 · update #1
I'm assuming that by you saying that you've never met your fiancee, means that you guys met online? And have been carrying your relationship out mainly online?
Well, if that online relationship counts enough to get engaged, then why wouldn't online cheating count as well?
2007-09-26 07:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is still cheating.. people have relationships online.. date and all that.. so if that counts then online cheating still counts.. it's not all just about physical touching, it's the fact that you actually thought of another women in a sexual way. plus you just said it.. you never met your fiance in person.. but still you know she is your fiance .. right? so as long as that's real, cheating is too.
2007-09-26 07:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lonelysorrow, Well it does in my eyes and the eyes of the lord ! I think that your lady is not sure that you are gonna fully become one with her ! When a man and a women marry it is heart, mind body and soul ! So please don"t just talk the talk but walk your talk ! If you both do you may live happily ever after !
2007-09-26 07:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.
2007-09-26 07:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never met your fiancee? Please clarify
2007-09-26 07:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋