My sister-in-law came to visit us for two months. I never thought, she has so much mental problems. During her 1st month of visit, she was keep saying, she is sick, she can't breath, she is week, she is having all kind of diseases. She made me driving her to the hospitals, walk-in-clinics and blood test labs including x-rays and Ultrasound, nothing came up.
I have severe health issues, and still recovering from some surgeries, but my sister-in-law neither does anything herself nor let me to do anything including household duties. She is just complaining non-stop about her diseases, she thinks, she has poison in her body, if anyone touch her, he/she would die and many things.
She is not willing to see a doctor for her treatment, she is not willing to leave house, she is just wandering around in the house, I have no privacy at all, she is not willing to leave the country (she also has dual nationality of here). She is not able to speak or understand English.
2007-09-26 05:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
My husband explained her everything that she is hurting me and it is no good, so leave.But she even goes in my neighbour's house who also speaks her language and she tells her stories. My husband already packed her stuff and took her at airport, and she made a huge scene infront of everybody by saying in her own language that if she would sit in the plane, plane would get destroyed, people would die etc. We had no choice but bringing her back home.
2007-09-26 05:41:56 · update #1
That's too bad. Maybe she is just not happy where she is. Maybe you can suggest she return to her home and seek some help there for her ailments. But say it in a nice way that would not hurt her feelings. She probably doesn't even know what's going on with her.
2007-09-26 05:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the other sisters. Calmly talk to your husband. But know that fighting over this won't help/ You don't want to look like a b. Best idea is to find a great guy and get him to ask the sister out. Or a great other girl friend. Or both. Sounds like she needs friends and fun activities and doesn't know how to get them. You and she could get involved in something together like an exercise group or a club or volunteer work. Then sometimes you could leave her to go by herself or have to leave early. That way you are helping her and getting her out of your hair. Look at it this way. She is pitiful. You got the guy. Legally, he is yours. He chose you. He didn't chose her. He just got stuck with her. Insist that your husband include you in activities with his sister most of the time. Be her friend. She needs one. Also, once you have children, you and your husband need to go out and let her babysit! I bet she will be a great aunt!
2016-04-06 02:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very wrong about having no choice but to take her home! You always have choice and free will and you have allowed her to take that away from you. I would drop her off at the airports front door, and drive away as quick as possible to the nearest police station and take out a restraining order on her. C'mon, who in their right mind will tolerate this kind of behaviour! If she is that troublesome, do you really care if she is involved in your life anyway? My answer would be a resounding No!!!
2007-10-04 01:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by quagmire1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thjis is a case where your husband has to take the responsibility of having her admitted to a psyche hospital for observation.. Hopefully to determine what the problem is and institute treatment. He can have her admitted for 72 hours. They can keep her longer should they find the problem severe enough.
2007-10-02 18:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know it's your sister, but she sounds like a class 'A' crackpot. The only thing I can suggest is having her commited for observation. Being family, this might be possible. Otherwise, if she won't leave, you're stuck. Wish I had a better idea of options for you.
2007-10-01 14:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok since this your sister in law its either your hubby sister or your brothers wife so you go to which ever of these to people and you discuss the issue with them. She seems to have some serious things going on with her. You have things you need to do and dont need the extra burden and I hate to call it that but thats how it seems to be with you recovering yourself. So start with either of those too or some other family that may be able to assist you.
2007-09-26 05:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs serious help you need to get her out of your home as soon as you can get a court order she's no right to be like this with you she has some serious mental health probs and needs to b in hospital.
2007-10-03 12:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by mandy r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister-in-law sounds narcissistic to me. It's all about her. No one has any problems but her. I would pack her bags, set them outside, change the locks, and get rid of this parasite before she destroys you. If that doesn't work, go stay in a hotel and charge it to your husband until he gets rid of her.
2007-09-26 05:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to pack her bags and put them on the porch.. call a taxi.. load them and her in it. Tell the cabbie to take her to a motel. Go down to the police station and get a restraining order on her.. make sure they know she is bilingual so they can get someone who can understand her language to explain what it means. When she shows up they can arrest her with luck she will go back to the old country.
Don't let her use you!!!!
2007-09-26 05:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I could take for for a ride on my Harley. 24 hours later when I bring her back she will be so glad to be alive although she may be afraid to leave the porch.
2007-09-26 05:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋