2007-09-26 04:48:08 · 19 answers · asked by drunkard r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No sweetheart it isnt,You need to get out of that situation now O.K. Any Abusive situations are Horrifying.To the baby And You.You are number One right now and that baby is very Precious And so are you.And any Abusive situation Is bad no matter Verbal Abuse,Sexual Abuse,Physical Abuse.No Abuse Is Good!! You need to focus on getting out of it.And make decisions for you and your baby,And only for you and the baby.No Money You are goiung to be Just fine Im here to help You Always. You need to seek Employment stay in school Get a awesome Education Seek Help from your area Department Of Social Services, For FoodStamps,Medical Assistance, WIC Program,Also I Need to know if you have family for support,If you live at home,Or are in School.Have a place to live? City and State your In? Please Dont Give up on you or the Baby.Please E-Mail Me at two_poccy_heel2007@yahoo.com In about a hour or so,I am gonna personnaly help you move further on and get back on your feet.Dont ever ever believe that staying in a abusive situation is better Its not O.k.Or that having no money Enables you to be a good Mom Or a awesome parent or person please trust me I was Married to a abusive usband for 2 years Until i Got the courage to leave him in 1991 You need to get the courage now not 2 yeras or 2 months form now.Please Trust Me Im on your side and will help you the best I can. We need to Talk And dont turn your back on me o.K. Im here for you. E-Mail Me ASAP.
2007-09-26 05:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a horrible question, do you want that baby to come out into an abusive relationship too?! There are always shelters or you have to have at least one friend who would let you stay at their house or something. Its NOT better to stay in the relationship just because of money, think of when the child grows up and realizes what happens to you and it scars the child.... or god forbid he hit the child also.
2007-09-26 11:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lale 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. You should go to a women's shelter. If you can't find one in your area go to your city's health department or police station and ask them where you can go. You should never stay in an abusive relationship. If he abuses you, how long do you think it will take him to start abusing your child too?
2007-09-26 11:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by kat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! It is not better to be in that abusive relationship!!! There are too many programs provided to help a woman and her baby to feel like she has to stay in a relationship because she has no money!!!
2007-09-26 11:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~SweetS~ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being in an abusive relationship is never good. If you have no money, you can always work, or go to a shelter if you can't work.
2007-09-26 17:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. There are resources for you to get help. Call on friends and family members, call a women's shelter and they can help you with state assistance. Call the police and ask them to point you toward resources to help you. Do you want to expose your baby to that abuser? A man who beats his pregnant wife or girlfriend will also beat his child. Newborns scream a lot...they're also very fragile. Do you feel good about bringing a baby into a household with someone with a short fuse and fast fists? Good luck.
2007-09-26 11:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Um, don't mean to be rude, but this is a dumb question. There are ways of making it on your own without having to risk your own life and that of your unborn child. No relationship at all is ALWAYS better than an abusive one.
2007-09-26 11:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by CrysV 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what you are asking. Are you saying you don't have any money so you are staying in abusive relationship because he has money?
2007-09-26 11:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by ericksmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The abuse has effected your thinking. Don't you want to protect your baby. Find a way to get out. the stress will not only hurt you but your baby. There are places you can go for help. Health Department, Childrens Health and Services, your parents. You MUST PROTECT YOUR BABY.
2007-09-26 11:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by shellshell 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, its is not worth it to get a miss carriage or get kill in the hands of an abusive partner just because there is no money , there is always options, shelters, non-profit associations, etc.
2007-09-26 12:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋