This girl in my karate class likes sparring with me. She always kicks me in the groin alot. I alwyas wear a cup and jockstrap and she knows i do. I think she said it turns her on sexually. But i dont like getting kick there even with a cup. She said if i told anyone she would come in the changing room grab and rip my cup out of my jock and punch me in the groin. What should i do?
2007-09-26 03:18:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
Tell everybody!
2007-09-26 03:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by 2bzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bah! Don't take this so seriously.
Call her bluff, instead of getting kicked repeatedly, learn to defend it, and also talk some smack back to her. If she says she is going to go into the changing room with you, tell her "How about we do something else in the changing room".
Have fun with it, also look at it as a training experience where you can learn to defend groin kicks easier. Personally if she started doing that to me, I would pinch her boob, or slap her @ss. Either one you can fit in the context of sparring. Either way if she knows she is doing wrong by repeatedly groin striking you, then she probably isn't going to make a big deal about you returning the favor for what turns you on sexually.
Also you can try returning the favor, it doesn't feel great for girls when you kick them there either.
Some may feel it is wrong to match an inappropriate action with another inappropriate action, and there is some validity to that.
You can ask her to stop, tell the instructor you don't wish to spar with her due to her groin happy ways, and be done with it. Chances are she will not be allowed in the changing room, nor will she be able to adeptly reach in your jock and pull out the cup, and if she does the worst that happens is you get hit in the balls, and she gets in real trouble for assault, and a sex crime. (reaching into your pants).
This whole thing should be a no brainer, either have fun with it, or avoid the girl all together and let the instructor know you don't wish to spar with her. Hell you don't even have to have a reason, just tell him you don't feel comfortable sparring with her.
Personally I would go with a boob grab, or at least ask her to show you her boobs or something so that it is a mutally beneficial thing... but that is just me. I go by the whole Mutual Welfare and Benefit principles of Judo...
Good luck.
2007-09-26 04:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by judomofo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that even if you are wearing a groin guard, it is not good to keep it hitting because it will lead you to an illness,(I don't know what is the right term for it, but it will decrease the number of your sperm), I know you didn't want that thing happend to you and to other guys of course.
If she still insists and keeps on hitting you on the groin, use your martial art skills, do some kinda of judo, grab her and take her down to the floor. Then tell her, "I like you, but I don't like the way you're doing to me... " Maybe it's a chance that you may both kiss and maybe.....you know what I mean...=) LOL! Just kidding man...
I also think that maybe she likes you so she's making fun of you...but in quite a painful way...
Just take good care of your sensitive parts, it's going to be bad for you if you don't be careful...
2007-09-26 03:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by CL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A steel cup would probably discourage her from kicking you in the groin. Thai fighters wear it.
Now, if I was you..... I don't take threats kindly from anyone, usually I respond to threats with a warning, tell her either she stops, or you are telling the instructor, and if she even thinks of ripping your cup our of your jock and punch you in the groin, you'll poke her eyes out, or disfigure her face with a knife or something along those lines.
NEVER hurt a lady, but a girl who enjoys hurting you and threatens you for no reason is no lady, giving you the right to defend yourself.
2007-09-26 03:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hit her full on (or however hard it is possible to strike without losing points- the last time I checked ITF was more into light/medium contact sparring). For her: rapists/robbers/criminals in general aren't gentlemently in the slightests. a knife won't be able to tell if the person they have stabbed is female or male. therefore, by holding back you are doing her a disservice as you give her a false image of what a real street fight is. you are not teaching her to defend against real people. For you: you paid the fees for a good sparring lesson. its only fair that you get your share and get to strike as hard as you want.
2016-05-19 00:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me like she is into you.
DUDE! SHE LIKES YOU!
She is probably one of those people who have difficulty expressing attraction.
Maybe you should ask her out.
Seriously... she thinks about you and she is so confused, she acts it out as aggression.
She probably has never been liked by a guy and assumes that you are not going to like her.
Tell her that you love her "tough as nails" side but you are sure there is a sweet sensitive person somewhere inside who needs some love.
Unless she looks like Broom-Hilda, you should go for yours!
When you go on the first date, give her your groin cup with a ribbon and a bow. She will love it.
2007-09-26 07:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Darth Scandalous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one you could learn to block a blow to the groin...two if kicking you in the groin gets her going she's a little nuts and she needs to respect the fact that you don't like it. Tell her to knock it off and if she continues punch/hit her in the chest. She'll soon realize why you don't like getting hit in the groin.
2007-09-26 03:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats not very nice to start with...And in the school there isn't time for sexual feelings she should be focused on the ART as well as you my friend, tell her this isn't a place just to play around. Having fun in the Dojo is GREAT but ok BUT, at other times you need to stay with a sharp mind and focus on the Art. :)
2007-09-26 17:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by MuayThaiDale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man likes getting kicked there Steve... my only advice is to find a perfect reversal to her cheep groin attack.
2007-09-28 03:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by JD Zombie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some balls dude, figuratively XD are you afraid of her? dont be, think smart! you should tell your instructor... being a girl i dont have balls so i can say for sure how you feel but i know if someone was constantly punching me in the breats i would block my chest better and beat the living daylights out o my partner ^^ but you dont sound like a good fighter....
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-26 03:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mollie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her a boy basher and get changed at home. if you know saifa then use the grabbing her hair hair is a girls weak spot on most girls exept me, my nose is my weak part. as for the groin is a boys.
2007-09-26 04:30:24 · answer #11 · answered by nom nom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋