well ive been seeing this dude for i think about one month now and i havent told my parents yet becoz they say im not ready for a relationship. i think that they prejudge him coz theyve seen him b4 and i really like this guy alot we met on some internet site (MXit) and i wanna prove to them that i made a good decison and that i can handle a guy ive had loadsa bfs already now they only telling me to stop wtf
so how do i convince them that i can have a bf
2007-09-26 02:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by Dalynz gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're dating a guy you met off an internet site and you want to prove to your parents that you can make good decisions...
Have you ever seen "To Catch a Predator"?
If you're under 16, deal with it. Concentrate on your homework, graduating high school and getting into a good college. Prove you're responsible by getting a job and getting good grades, then your parents will trust you more.
And don't date guys off the internet unless you're doing it through a reputible site (eHarmony, match.com, etc.). MySpace ain't the place to meet guys. Or whatever MXit is...
2007-09-26 02:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't know this person at all. A month tells you nothing about a person. Before you start talking about a relationship (which seems like a desperate move 1- meeting him on the internet and 2- already convince your parents for what?!?!) get to know this person first. You shouldn't be going to your parents about anything at this time. Take your time, no SEX, and get to know this new mystery man. It will save you a lot of heartache if you just slow things down.
2007-09-26 03:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents have seen this internet "dude" and they already don't like him, then you have to convince them otherwise.
Try being responsible for your life. Do things to help out around the house without being told. Bring your grades up to A's. Spend some time with the family. Get rid of the drama and the attitude. In essence, grow up enough to be trusted.
2007-09-26 02:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. You are living in their house, respect them. They are the parents, you are the child. Respect their rules and if you dont understand why the rule is in place, then open up the door of communication and ask. Who knows, if you prove that you are old enought to hold a sensible parent daughterr relationship with them. then they may decide that they can trust you enough to let you date
2007-09-26 02:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by okiemuskvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you live in their house, you must abide by their rules... you are the daughter, they are the parent! and if you don't listen, you can get hurt, very, very bad... they know alot more than you do! trust them... and listen to them...
2007-09-26 02:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You age is important here. For that matter, his too.
Since you don't give either, probably not a good sign.
2007-09-26 03:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Robert S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋