I want to know why none of them, seem to call me to go out with them. I seriously want suggestions? Is it cause they're shy or that they are scared of rejection? Cuase that's what stops me from asking them.
2007-09-26 01:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by Husain F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh by the way, I don't like sports. But I do like martial arts (is that a sport but whatever). I find it hard to find something intersting to say.
2007-09-26 01:38:28 · update #1
you need to make an effort aswell dont expect them to call.
Being a nice and good person but not naive either.
2007-09-26 01:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Humza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this question has a ready made answer go to a good book shop such as BORDER S OR AMAZON .COM
Search for Mr Dale Carnegies book : "How to win friends and influence people"
Ipersonally read this years ago it is quite good in telling you how to make friends .Also how to make yourself more approachable to new contacts and friends!
good luck Just relax & be yourself with new contacts.
2007-09-26 08:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by sunil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find your confidence, the reason people do not want to hang out with you could be cos you are unsure of yourslf and boring. try to strike up conversations by talking about little and simple things. I feel your pain cos i used to be like that but i now feel more confident in myself and it shows on the outside. Good luck.
2007-09-26 08:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends works both ways!
Dont just sit around waiting for them to call you.
Call them!
Suggest going out for a drink somewhere!
Catch up on all the gossip!....after all, thats what friends are for!
2007-09-26 09:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be there just not very good friends cause you say that ya r friends and friends they hang out at place other then skool and i think you should still be friends with them but you should also open your eyes to other people you never know ooks dont tell how the person is so try it!!
2007-09-26 08:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by I Love Walter!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends that only seem to go out with once a year, but I have a good friend that i dont see that often but i know our friendship is still there.
2007-09-26 08:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by xxxxxxxxx.DDavid................ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B a good listener,don,t talk about urself all the time,b interested in ur partner,flatter,smile.All the things that make u feel good if they were done 2u
2007-09-26 08:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by mad&sad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am at a new college & i made new friends she is nice. it esay once you get talking to them u be fine trust me. try it and email me bck to tell how u got on
2007-09-26 08:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by littlefish_sexysarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real friend that you get in this life is your mum.........................all the others are simply colleagues or acquaintances.........remember that"!
2007-09-26 08:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋