i'm a small body and there are probably not enough of hormones or smth. when i start seeing someone i feel interested all teh ways but my interest in sex wears off so fast even if it's nice and teh guy is good. what to do?
know how naturaly to get more horny or to want sex more often? i know that dishes with cinamon or cilly or onions help, but what else?
watching porn sites doesn't help it's just makes me discusted.
2007-09-26 01:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by rafinuota 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is different. We all have our own pace and timing. It is also quite normal for attraction to slow down or wane a bit after the initial lust wears off some.
Don't be so critical of yourself. If you are one who doesn't need so much, it's not "abnormal", just you.
Don't let your partner tell you something is "wrong", and it could very well be his/her approach. If you are female, it could be that the relationship just isn't the right one. Interest often decreases if we aren't treated well, if we don't feel cared for, if we aren't very satisfied when we DO have sex.
There is no known food or drug that will increase your sexual desire - that stuff is a myth, If you want a "boost" ask your partner to treat you better, to be more loving or if female, play with your femininity, get some new clothes, spend some time on your appearance and don't worry so much. There's nothing wrong with you.
2007-09-26 01:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's got nothing to do with your size. There are no foods or beverages that increase sexual desire, although there are many that various cultures *claim* have that effect.
It's possible your hormone levels are off, so a medical check-up and asking your doctor about a lack of desire isn't foolish.
However, more likely is that you're not with anybody who is fully desirable to you. Many people's minds turn on the "horny signal" unless that person is totally *it* for them.
You might consider a single alcoholic drink (which loosens inhibitions without getting you drunk) and reading erotica, which tends to be less graphic and far more classy than visual porn.
2007-09-26 08:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you get bored. So do some research on the many many many different things that you can do to make sex more interesting.
Here are a few I personally like--
Role play
Bondage
Denial
Exhibitionism
Four out of hundreds! Also I don't like regular porn at all but I am quite the fan of Hentai--anime porn. Something about it being anime instead of real people gives me a kick!
2007-09-26 08:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to offend you but have you ever thought about having sex with a girl? It seems like you're not that into guys ... when i'm with a guy I want to touch him all day long and i could be all over him
2007-09-26 08:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have the guys you're with perform more oral sex on you. That should get those hormones going:) Good luck..
2007-09-26 08:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just haven't met the person that is going to makeyou want more sex. You do have to be attracted to a person to have those feelings.
2007-09-26 08:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say that u need to have sex then you will crave it if not get a sperm doner that will give you more hormones
2007-09-26 08:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by prettyschoolgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋