hi, im 27, still single yet handsome&successful, all my mates had heaps of sex& then got married&have kids. i made a mistake by being the nice guy&w8in for the rite girl. she neva came. now if i was a player i would have got heaps, but i chose to be a nice guy, now i regret it. times have changed. was it wrong?
2007-09-26 00:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god no. guys like you are too rare. keep looking shes out there and 27 is still young .plenty of time for a family.
2007-09-26 00:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see it as be true to yourself, You'll find the person that you deserve. The moment you change who you are is the moment the people from your past succeed. They succeed in damaging you and making you change is what I mean. Never give anyone the power to change that. Ive been hurt over the years im 24, I finally have a guy that is beyond words. But although my past hurt me, lied to me and deceived me I never stopped being who I was the kind loving person.
You have to also look at your friends, just because some people seem happy doesnt mean they are. Trust me when i say i know alot of people who got married out of obligation like oops im pregnant situations, or just mostly got into the situation by other circumstances. Nobody has a time limit its not a race, its better to be alone then in bad company. If they are genuinely happy then kudos you'll find a girl that values you for the great person you are :-)
2007-09-26 09:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Queen of the Scene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. I have a good friend who I went to college with. We sat down one night and dang near covered the alphabet concerning the first names of girls he had slept with. He was the lonliest person I know. Now 27 is young. In fact the average age for men to consider actually getting married (although I did it young) is 27 or so in the US and that to "consider". Listen, at the age of 37 I can tell you that your sex options are far far far from over. In fact women hit their sexual peek at around early to mid 30's as unfair as that may sound. But forget the sex part. Its nothing. Sex without something meaningful is like eating plain toast bud. There is nothing on it. It gets real old real fast. Its empty. There is nothing that a woman finds more fasinating than a man who is real to the core. Sounds like you are on the right path. Dont be so hard on yourself. Im not telling you to not have fun Im just telling you not to worry about it so much. To be honest, my craziest point in my life on that level was when I found that my first wife had cheated on me, I found myself single at 31 - 32 and WOW. Man I had to beg some of them to go home because I had to work or I wasnt really interested. The world is still your oyster bud. Cheer up! BTW... and this is true... what makes a man isnt sex or what he has or anything superficial like that regardless of the emphasis that people place on that stuff at times. What makes a man a man are the decissions that he makes.
2007-09-26 07:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kerrick C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. You act like your an old man and you lost your chance. You will meet someone. and you being the nice guy is what shes going to want. Maybe you just need to go about things differntly not like a manwhore.
2007-09-26 07:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you are being to hard on yourself. there is nowt wrong with being a nice guy, wish there was more of them about. im now 29 and is longing to meet a nice guy. iv always had relationships with controlling men, or complete nutters, jack the lad so to speak. so now im on the look out for a nice guy that will treat me right, and that i can be happy with.
BRING BACK THE NICE GUYS...WHERE ARE YOU ALL HIDING?
2007-09-26 07:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no.
NICE GUYS FOR THE WIN!
I'm guessing your not shallow, so dont think of it as wastning time, but at the same time, if your worried about the secks, then when you do get a girlfriend, you wont worry.
2007-09-26 07:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all - everyone does things differently - and the right girl is on her way - her train just isn't here yet. i applaud your integrity and remember - the beauty of life is we all can choose which way we wanna go
2007-09-26 07:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are self obsessed and afraid. My advice, begin dating mannequins, you will never get hurt.
2007-09-30 07:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Joey Michaels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find her....
2007-09-26 07:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋