I was with my ex for two years it was all good for a long while then he finished it got with someone else finished that got back with me, then he moved away due to family problemss it was a long distance relationship in the first place so this was impossible.
Then he got with someone else so i did around the same time exxcept i still love him n hes always ringing lieing bout trivial things then admiting he lied blah blah
my currrent boyfriend knows i still love him but is supportive my ex has began to send msgs like i love you i wish we were still together hes still with this girl agh! please help
2007-09-26 00:42:54 · 23 answers · asked by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still love him and i cant help but want to be with him even tho i have a great bf
2007-09-26 00:43:57 · update #1
He's a loser and a user. Don't fall for it, you are worth more. Keep away from him, don't talk to him; find someone who treats you well. Good luck!
2007-09-26 00:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Booger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pls do not make the wrong decision. I have been in your shoes and have made the right move and am happily going to get engaged in Dec. If you can still feel that you have a great boyfriend now who understands you and is still supportive, he is the right guy for you. Not every guy will accept this from his girlfriend. Anyway, i think your ex-guy could be a cheat. He just wants company and attention. Chuck him aside and tell him straight that you do not wish to hear from him anymore. As for your feelings, do consider wisely as i sense that your current guy is a great person to you.
2007-09-26 07:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get your head examined and find out why you're still willing to accept that kind of b/s from your ex. You know his track record and he will never be faithful to you. He doesn't want you; he just doesn't want anyone else to have you and has determined to make your life miserable. If I were your current boyfriend, when you said that you still loved your ex, I would have told you goodbye. If you ever want any stability in your relationships you have to get rid of your ex and stop the messages from him. You've turned him into a fantasy which makes it easier to believe you love him. After all that he has done, HOW COULD YOU?
2007-09-26 07:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Laredo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well me and my ex broke up and we had finished he had moved on and i had moved on but in my heart i still had feelings for him and i think he was the same way although i was goin out with my new boyfriend i still loved my old one in my heart i was confused at that point but anyway. Well everyone goes threw it if u brake up with someone u still have feelings for that person and then if u see ur ex with another person u are like really mad that is how i was but u will get over it and find someone else new!!
2007-09-26 07:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by gigigege 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote, it's a good look at what your life will be like with your Ex. It seems that the only thing that has changed for him is the new girls. Do you want a life like that or do you think you deserve better? Don't you want a man who wants to be with you all the time or a guy who wants to be with you in between the new girlfriends?
2007-09-26 07:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by just me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Follow where your hearth leads but let your hearth be leaded by way you guys got along in the phase one. If you are getting on YA to share this it is obviously because you want to consider getting back to him, then you must look closely, see your present boyfriend you will be hurting in the picture, tease your ex's sincerity before choosing.
Good luck
2007-09-26 07:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Progress Trader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're acting like a fool. Your current boyfriend cares for you, yet you're holding on to some past love affair that was horrible, at best. You're going to lose a good man, if you continue to carry a torch for a bum. Better wake up, before it's too late!
2007-09-26 07:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look, things didn't work out between you before + he lied to you. I don't think it's a good idea to give up a great relationship with your current boyf (he sounds very caring & mature) to go back to what sounds a bit like a jerk.
2007-09-26 07:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd normally say follow your heart but truth be told following mine has never gotten me anything more than heartache, so if you love your bf stay with him, but don't go back to the ex, you won't forgive yourself in the long run.
2007-09-26 08:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like bad news. You want to be with him anyway, even though you have a great boyfriend? ACK. You need therapy! Seriously! The ex sounds like a loser! Where' s your self-esteem, girl! You deserve better! Cut it off!
2007-09-26 07:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by vividdark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋