i like this guy and i want to flirt but i dont know how. pls help me. its urgent!!
2007-09-26 00:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the situation. Primarily, the purpose of flirtation is two fold. To get the guy to notice you and to let him know you notice him. It is difficult to advise a good course of action without knowing the context. For instance in a bar, at work, on public transportation etc. Also it is important to know the level of competition; for instance in a office with several other women all interested in the same guy.
Generally speaking, you should always look your best without going over the top. This is not to attract his attention but to make a positive impression once you do. To attract his attention, any trick will do. It can be as subtle as making eye contact but in a special way. Once your eyes meet, do not look quickly away (expected behavior), rather mantain eye contact just a little longer and when you do turn away, turn your head first to sort of give a little over the shoulder glance (unexpected behavior).
If you practice it in a mirror for a while you will see how powerful it can be. If you two talk to each other, be aware of body language. If you are conversing among other people turn your body towards him. This includes him and excludes others. Be interested in what he says and laugh at his jokes.
To kick it up a notch make physical contact. This can be done in several subtle but effective ways. You can pick lint off of his shoulder, admire some piece of jewelry, or suddenly need to adjust your shoe and hold onto his arm to steady yourself while you do.
There is no gurantee that anything will work. It has a lot to do with how compatible you both are etc. But these techniques work well getting him to notice you. What happens after that is up to the two of you.
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2007-09-26 00:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well on account that I'm a woman, I twirl my hair and kinda crack a few love jokes. Humor is ALWAYS a well solution to flirt so matters do not get bizarre. My buddy instructed me I am widespread (however I do not feel her) and that boys love me. I fairly do not believe so. So fairly, cracking jokes and getting just about your bf/gf is a fairly well solution to flirt. My bf and I are the couple who do bizarre stuff like gradual movement stuff. Anything funny is a fairly well solution to flirt. If you mess matters up and do a foul shaggy dog story, now that is unhealthy. Also plenty of eye touch. Hope this is helping! ~Coca*** With Peace and Love
2016-09-05 07:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by solarz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease him, but not hard. Let him know you're there, and sit by him a lot. BUT do NOT under any circumstances be by him so much that you bother him. Got it? Eye contact while talkin' to him, and go ahead and see if the hand on the shoulder thing works.
2007-09-26 00:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to flirt in one very easy step
1: try not to choke and act yourself(this means DON'T STAMMER! summon up the courage to ask him out.
2007-09-26 00:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile a lot n be nice to him! be yourself...there's no point tryin to do stuff thats not naturally you...
2007-09-26 00:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋