problem#1)i have just entered my college life and there is a girl X in our class who is always torturing me and.i really have started hating her and her friend Y.they are always rude to me and when they want me to do anything for them, just then they seem polite.my problem is that i donot hate people and when i realized that i have starting hating them, i wept alot. please help me what should i do to avoid them and hating them.
2)the same girl X says bad about the person i am fan of i-e daniel radcliffe .although she is also his fan but she says cheap things about him and that is why i come out of control because i donot like people saying bad things about whom they are not even met.
4)i am becoming sensitive day by day.
5)today our physics teacher had taken the first ever.i knew all the test but due to X's behaviour, i forgot all the test and i donot want my teacher to think bad of me you know first impression is the last one.
please count my problems as really serious oness pleas
2007-09-25 23:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leon, please know the same abusive toxic 'friends' you are talking about are everywhere. They seem to prey on sensitive persons. OK here is my advice RUN from this kind of person. They seem to delight in making people feel bad. You don't have to be mean just tell her you are "busy' DON'T give information about what. Just avoid as much as possible.
Second, start hanging out places where people are like you hang out, join some of the student organizations. Try to keep your mind on your studies instead of making friends at this time. I know it is hard and lonely sometimes. Great friends are waiting and so is your future. Congratulations on college many people don't get this opportunity.
2007-09-25 23:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by luteachris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like, to me, that you are giving X and Y way too much space in your head! You could benefit from thinking about them in another way. Why don't you think of them as sick friends? In a way they really are emotionally sick to toy with your emotions. If you start to wish for them the same things you would wish for a sick friend, you will realize one day that those feelings of hatred are gone. Remember that you can only control how YOU think and feel about things. There is NOTHING you can do to change their behavior, so for your own sanity, try changing yours. Good Luck
2007-09-26 06:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by gitargal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just ignore girl X and her friend Y. It's that simple. You will make your life so much easier if you don't worry about what other people think about you. I think the pressures of college are getting to you and you might think about going on some anti-depressant medication.
2007-09-26 06:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have worse problems than those girls. You need some anti-depressants. Go to a psychiatrist. There is no one reason for you to let these girls upset you that badly. It has to be a problem with you.
2007-09-26 06:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋