Who feels like they would love to call it quits on their marriage, but for some reason they are afraid to do so?
2007-09-25 21:47:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a hog wash. Everyone should be independent and stay single. Dont ever lose your freedom and career in the name of marriage. Its a scam.
2007-09-25 21:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marriage takes a lot of work. My husband and I both decided to always work on it and I bet if you have not left yet there is a reason. Think about it.
These are a few of the things we do to help out.
When was the last time you took a overnight or even a little day trip together?
When did just the two of you take time to have fun?
Do you two go and do things you did when you were dating?
Do you buy each other a little gift for no reason except to say I was thinking of you?
Do you get some snacks, a bottle of wine and cuddle up to watch a funny movie?
Think back and plan some stuff. Work on it. Remember all the reasons you fell in love with your spouse. You would work on a new relationship this hard.
We do and I hope this helps a little. Try it for awhile and then see how you feel. Sometimes changing things can get rid of that stuck feeling. My husband just got done taking a few days off and we just goofed off together for 4 days! We are happy and I hope this helps you to.
2007-09-26 00:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married young and we were not the same people and I wanted out so I got out. I don't think people should stay for the children because kids pick up on this unhappiness. My daughter has a great relationship with her father and his new wife and I am remarried and we all get along because we did not stay together and grow a hate for each other. It was hard but I had to do it.
NOw I did not jump in to marriage I was single for almost 11 years and loved it. I did me. But I met my new husband and I knew this was it and I loved him from day one. Now my daughter has her dad his wife and their family who love her dearly and would do anything for her and my husband will die for her. I just had a baby and my ex husband's wife was there for us and helped us with the other kids while I was in the hospital so it all worked out for me.
We are one big crazy happy family and alot of my family and friends can't understand how we are all friends but we are and it is great.
2007-10-03 04:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by My Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that for 4 years then i found him cheating on me , what a relief it was as i left and now i'm happy again, he's happy too and we get on ok for the sake of our kids , so in the end we're all doing fine, life moves on and the hurt gets less and less, do what your heart tells you and don't be scared, it's so hard at first but you'll be much happier. It is very scary as your leaving what your used to , but you soon get used to being somewhere else. Good luck
2007-09-25 22:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by sandie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like BETTY feels that way!!! We're afraid of having to go through all the hassles of starting over, the heartache it will cause (for both). The cost of divorce, the fighting over petty material things, etc etc. ITS THE STORM BEFORE THE CALM! If your unhappy with yourself divorce is not the answer! But if your unhappy with your spouse,
Go for it !Quit I double dare ya!!
2007-10-03 15:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt like that for a long time now i even left for about 3 months and came back. It is a long story but just wanted you to know your not alone.
2007-10-02 13:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by mamawmessedup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel stuck with my spouse but we have a kid together and im afraid if i leave my kid will grow up being unstable or blames me...so i stay and try to work things out for now....if i cant then i would consider leaving after the kid is a little older....
2007-09-25 21:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that . We have a 3 yr old son together. He rarely spends any time with him. I'm just scared to leave because of my son and I do love him. He doesn't give me the attention I need.
2007-10-01 09:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do. My husband is an alcoholic who gets into these raging abusive fits. I want to leave but I love him and I worry about how my life will be afftected if we split because of our friends, upcomign events, our house.
2007-09-26 01:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jcord29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME! i got mysel in a mess dat i cant seem to get out of cos im married n i hav a 3yr old son! read my question.
2007-09-25 21:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by lilady_d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋