My gf and I live 3 states apart, and we agreed we would both be ok with the other seeing other ppl. Well, she has done so and I am really hurt about it. I guess because they flaunt it on myspace and I have to see it. And it hurts because I dont even have anyone to talk to about it cause she is the one I talked everything over now. Plus, she doesnt have time for me anymore. We used to IM every day and now its like every couple of weeks. I dont know what to do about this. Any suggestions?
2007-09-25 20:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by starryeyed75 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I believe the relationship may be over and your gf has moved on.
It's time for you to do the same.
It's not an easy task and some feelings may be unresloved. Somethings you have no control over and yet there are others that it is up to you to turn around.
This is a situation that you can change on your part.
Good luck....been there
2007-09-26 03:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exact problem with making this type of agreement ~ we can all agree to anything we know nothing about, but when it actually happens that's when we realise we hate the situation.
Unfortunately, long distance love affairs are very difficult.
You might want to think about asking your gf to call it quits and move on while you can still be friends, rather than hang on to the bitter end of recriminations and hurt.
It seems like she's already moving that way ~ why not take a leaf out of her book, get free and find someone who can share your life by being there for you and taking part in your everyday joys and sorrows.
Good luck and best wishes :-)
2007-09-26 04:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by thing55000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i am sorry to say it looks like the relationship has cooled off.i think maybe she wants to not hurt you by ending it but she acts as if you do not count at all.
why don´t you end it instead of enduring the pain of sharing her and seeing her be unfaithful.the way it sounds you agreed on seeing others but you were not ready to actually do it or thought she would.
only you can stop this pain by respecting yourself enough to end this one way love-it seems that way from the outside.
good luck hon!!!
2007-09-26 03:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and meet some new people. You need some friends to occupy your free time a bit. Find some hobbies also.
2007-09-26 03:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are other mature women out here ya know.She has obviously moved on & so should you ; p
2007-09-26 04:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't get jeous. If you do then find a boyfiend who lives near u.
2007-09-26 05:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋