is it true that u need 2 pop ur cherry b4 u hav sex? and wat are somethings i can use 2 prepare myself before i hav sex for my first time?
2007-09-25 17:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by PriNCeSS 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There can be pain when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood. I did not bleed but there was pain. Other women have had no pain. It depends if the hymen is intact.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
When you're turned on, the uterus and cervix rise, lengthening the vaginal tube. When his penis penetrates, the walls of the vagina stretch to accommodate the difference.
For some, the first few times make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
2007-09-26 06:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but there are one of two things going on with that statement. Either 1: you're too young to be having sex or 2: you haven't been with many guys. Most girls/women don't say "pop ur cherry" much less with spelling like that. No you don't pop your own cherry before sex. That's what happens during the first time you have sex. Don't be tense, relax and there will be some pain. Also it might help if your legs can stretch outwards some. I can't describe it but if they're not used to being moved outward your legs will hurt a lot after sex.
2007-09-25 17:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first things first, what is referred to as 'popping the cherry' is actually breaking a membrane called the hymen. You don't need to pop it before, it is the penetration of the penis that breaks the hymen. To prepare yourself you can use your fingers to stretch and get used to the feeling of something inside you, there isn't really much that will prepare you for it because there is no sensation like it. Make sure it is going to be something you won't regret with someone important who understands and is not rough so there is no danger of damdging yourself. Also, make sure you practice safe sex!!! Most important! You don't want to nd up pregnant or contract an STD from the male.
2007-09-25 18:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bunnykins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know who you talk to but no, there is no "popping of the cherry" ceremony prior to sex. Its probably gone anyway, if you've used tampons ever masterbated or... fallen on the pole thingy on a bike ouch.
There is no rush on these things, make sure the person you lose your virginity to likes(loves preferably!!!) you for your personality not just for the satisfaction of being your first. This is very important and you wont for get who and where and how your first time was for the rest of your life. I wish I would have waited, but it seemed like the thing to do at the time, i was too curious for my own good. I hope you arent the same or you'll shake your head every time you look back on it.
2007-09-25 18:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "pop your cherry" refers to they hymen, which is usually already broken through day to day wear and tear. Things like horseback riding, or bike riding, are just examples of what would break your hymen pre-sex.
There's really nothing physically to do for preparation, only mental. Make sure you're ready for sex before you do it.
And enjoy!
It might hurt a bit at first, but your body will relax and it will feel very good after your first two times or so.
Good luck!
2007-09-25 18:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetie,
U have to get into r body, finger there, find out what u like & tell him, he will please if U do? Also please when u put the condomn on him r visa/versa, better u though, Make sure there's plenty o' room 4 the pre-*** & the final *** r condomn will burst! But make sure it's on secure, up, tight, lots o' room at top & be careful. Make sure u can remove condomn safely & there r no tears in it, & u can see the seman intact. which means it's not in U, very important!!! Best o' Luck, 2 U!
LOL, Diana D
P.S. It's not true about popping r cherry bfor
sex, it just makes it easier & less painful 4 U
Plse get back r exp, good & bad, age, & anymore u care 2 share & I'll tell u ab. mine!
2007-09-25 18:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Diana D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you've taken a sex-ed course or two, and PAY ATTENTION. There's a lot more you need to know about first. The timing of "popping your cherry" is the least thing you should be worrying about before having sex.
2007-09-25 18:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to "pop your cherry" before you have sex for the first time... this happens during your first sexual intercourse... before the guy can put himself all the way inside of the girl, there is a thin layer of skin that needs to be broken. However, this layer of skin is broken my the man's part... it will hurt for a few seconds and then it won't hurt after that.
hope this helps!
2007-09-25 17:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you dont have to pop your cherry first ! that is what makes the first time so special
2007-09-25 17:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by bmjnuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not true it usually does pop when you 1st have sex
unless it broke prior also make sure u use protection trojan is the best and make sure its lubricated becareful you cannever get your virginity back darling and you will forever remb your first time caution
2007-09-25 17:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋