So what would you do if you knew what one of your parents was cheating? I have already confronted the cheater and all i get is reasoning and explanation of why is is valid for it to happen. I honestly think that both parents have been unfaithful is some regard to one another. I just dont know what to do. I know that it isnt my place to tell the other parent.. the marriage wwould end. They have been married 35 yrs. What can I do or say. How do i approach the cheater? and whats solution.. stop doing it.. but dont tell? what do you think?.. i am an adult child so i can say something
2007-09-25 17:24:34 · 6 answers · asked by PuRpLe HaZe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Infidelity is one of the most painful situations a person can go through. I don't think you should tell the parent who is not cheating about the other parent's infidelity. What the eyes can't see the heart can't feel. Try to help your cheating parent to stop doing it. If he/she doesn't then tell him/her that you will tell. If he/she doesn't care then I think then your mom/dad will be better without him/her anyways.
2007-09-25 17:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but this really is none of your business,
'you might be a adult ,but this really is between your parents
and afer 35 years of marriage, they are the one that can
only do what is right. trust me confront the other person
is the not the best answer either, he/she know what they'are
doing, and if they are valid reason for this,then there nothing
for you to say or do..
2007-09-25 17:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't. This is none of your business. Your parents are grown ups and what they do is between them. Back off.
2007-09-25 17:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what age you are, the problem is not yours to deal with! Let it go!
2007-09-25 17:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the cheater that they need to be honest with their spouse or you will.
2007-09-25 17:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Alexa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone honey....maybe they are (both) happy in their own cheating way.
2007-09-25 17:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋