My husband of 4 years just found out I had an affair one year ago and he knows that I have had past affairs with him, he only knows of 2 but actually it has been 4 with the same person. I have been faithful since April of this year, I have been trying to make it work. When he found out about the last affair he was mad but he still wants to work it out. I feel like I love him but when I married him I was in to alcohol and drugs and I have been sober and clean for seven months now and I want to work things out because the man I was cheating with is no goooood, but when I first met him I was sooo in love with him and he had a large penis and my husband penis is not so big but I have a better relationship with my husband than him. I want to forget about how good the penis is and want to make my marriage work. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-25 17:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by Meat05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You were not in love..you were in Lust. Large penis does not equal love Gurlfriend. I know plenty of men with large penises but I am not in love with them. Ever thought about how many other women this man was pleasing with his LARGE thang other than you. Get real, talk with your husband, get a good understanding and do the right thing. Good luck!
2007-09-26 17:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by MissBadto_ the bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fairly obvious that your husband has problems of his own in picking a winner for a wife. That said, the fact that you want to work things out must be analyzed; exactly why? If it is all about a good time then why get married? Penis size has NOTHING to do with commitment. Your husband is/was committed to you but you broke his trust on many occasions. I don't think you have the tools to know what a "better relationship" is. I suggest a separation from eachother to figure out what is really important for both of you. Counseling may help but you need to be truthful to participate and your track record is less than stellar.......
BTW, at least your clean and sober (high 5) for the time being. Maybe you can use this time to make a rational decision about your future.
2007-09-25 17:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by "wheels" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you would be doing your husband a favor if you left.
It is not all about getting the big COCK.
You need to sit down and think about what you have done to your husband and how you have hurt that man.your lucky he has not kicked your butt to the curb for being a cheater.
That man has probably given you many things including moral support.
You need to be thanking the lord that he has not put you out of that house in to the middle of the street for the garbage man to pick up.
If you still feel the need to cheat on your man grant him a divorce and let him find someone that he deserves for a wife.
2007-09-25 18:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by dans.chat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better try to work things out with your husband if you care anything for him because the guy with the big penis is not going to be around forever.he'll get tired and want something more and then where will you be?if your husband still wants to be with you and work this out then i think your better off trying your best to do just that.you just said that the guy wasn't that good anyway so whats to forget?
2007-09-25 17:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big penises, alcohol, and drugs are what makes life fun. It's always good to love what you have, but if it isn't going to work it just won't work. Besides, regardless of what he says you lost him, it will never be the same. So why not just let go and give in to happiness you can control. Go out and buy a fat bag and call me and we'll talk all about it.
2007-09-25 17:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is get some counseling to deal with the
fact that you continue to cheat on him there a reason that
this is happen. and until you deal with this then you will do
it again , and trust me it not the size that should matter at all
but there is more going on in this marriage, but congrat on
be sober for 7 months, keep up the good work.but get
some help. good luck toyou.
2007-09-25 17:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Are u serious ? You need to get ur priorities together.Such a shame that u fell victim to such a low blow. Cheating on ur husband because of his penis size? U need to be smacked back into reality . Put urself in his shoes, what if he cheated on u with another woman and said her vagina was better?
This sickens me.
2007-09-25 17:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tru_New Orleanian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-25 17:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Divorce him and give him a chance to be with someone who won't judge him on the size of his tool.
2007-09-25 17:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by contessaharridan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please give your husband a divorce and give him an opportunity to be married to someone with some self respect. That's not you.
2007-09-25 17:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋