I have been to quite a few countries an I have noticed that foreign men living there would normally have local girlfriends/wives. In Japan, most foreigners would eventually settled down with a local lady. Same in most other Asian country, Africa, Latin America, etc.
However, you hardly ever see an American woman with a foreign man and hardly see foreign men married to American women. Very very few.
Do most American women find foreign guys inferior?
Please tell me the truth; no holds barred, no politically correct whitewash.
2007-09-25 17:00:32 · 22 answers · asked by Ling Ting Tong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A friend of mine dated an Indian man, and it didn't work because of his overall view of women, i'm not saying he was sexist or anything even close... but she said that "you could just tell he was thinking "that's not something momma would do"....and I think that's true of all men. All women eventually get compared to the mom... and unless that man had a very independent and strong mother.. I think they just view American women differently ....
Personally, I would never date a foreign man, because that's just not what I want in life/love... I'm from small town America, I have a great job, as does my man, we do a little farming on the side... Being with a foreign man would have never crossed my mind.
2007-09-25 17:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by the_great_melissa 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Scandinavians, Dutch, French, Germans, Australians, and Brits are okay for American women to marry because they have better views about women in terms of gender equality. And also, there's more men than women in America and lots of times they will marry American men and American men get jealous easily when American women are with foreign men and view foreign men as bad like their woman stealers or something.
2014-02-27 11:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by That Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my foreign husband online years ago without actually trying and we have been together for 6 years now. We have a loving happy marriage and I don't regret deciding to have a relationship with a foreign man. My husband is German and expects me to be an equal partner in everything. I spoke no German and he knew "yes" and "no" so the language barrier was a big obstacle at first. It caused many big fights and made some fights worse through simple misunderstanding. But we loved each other, had fights, and stayed together and now I understand German like English, he understands English very well. We each speak the others language somewhat also. I more German than he does English even though we live in America, probably because he is 12 years older and he lacks my natural language ability. If you are serious about staying together it is worth it but it's too much trouble and stress if you just want to have fun. Language barriers are the easy part. Cultural differences much worse.
2014-10-01 10:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mellissa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I'm an American woman and I find most foreign guys that I've met to be preferable to American guys. In fact, I'm dating a foreign guy right now, and he's much nicer than any of the Americans I've dated. I think most American women find foreigners to be inferior, though. Mostly I think it's a symptom of the generalized hatred of foreigners that seems to be common in the United States. (note: this only seems to apply to Asians, Africans, and South/Latin Americans--I've seen plenty of European and Australian men married to American women).
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2016-05-17 13:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I would marry a European man over American as they are more culturally interesting, however, I live in America, so it's a logistical and citizenship issue; I would have no problem leaving America
2014-01-03 17:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Miriam 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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