i've just had a baby and it wont be long now before we can enjoy eachother again. i'm a little self concious, but i want to wear something. (obviously that flatters my recently distorted body, trying not to show much midrif) any suggestions? he tends to like the "sporty" look
2007-09-25 16:49:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe try a tank top and a pair of "boy short" underwear if he likes the sporty look. He ain't going to be worried about the litttle (or big lol) imperfections you have, believe me. Have fun!
2007-09-25 16:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by im sure 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever sport he enjoys most dress up in one of their outfits and if possible have his name on the jersey, etc. Even if it is just a hand written sign with his name on it he'll appreciate the time and effort you put into it. If he likes hockey then put on a hockey jersey and a helmet. The jersey is long enough to cover your "distorted" body as you so gently put it. Regardless of how you think you look at present I'm betting he thinks you look more beautiful than at any other time in your relationship. Childbirth does that to both women and men. Best of luck and have fun with it.
2007-09-25 16:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you for you. You should be proud of your " mommy wounds", at least thats what I call it. I love my body. I am preggers with my second child. I was a little self concious about my body .. but its called self esteem. Just because you dont like the way your body looks doesnt mean that its a turn off to him. I would say wear some heels - buck naked. Why cover your body ? Theres nothing to hide. Be proud of your body.
2007-09-25 17:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tru_New Orleanian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try something sexy ..... maybe a loose basketball tank top from his favorite team, get your hair done, nice make up and the rest should be attitude and looks.... I´m sure he will be thrilled not only for how you will look, but because he must be amazed to make love again to the "mother of his child"..it should be sweet. Congratulations and enjoy those beautiful moments
2007-09-25 16:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a babydoll isn't that sporty but they do cover the midriff. A teddy would work too. Maybe a cute cami and boy short ensemble would be "sporty". : ) I would hit some shops and try different things on.
2007-09-25 16:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you could wear many things and you'd be surprised that how much he would feel how pretty you are. This is if he loves you and you had his baby. So I assume he adores you! Wear a Jersey and nice lace panties. To start the mood. God bless you and him and your new baby.
2007-09-25 16:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they say less is more.
I think nothing would go a long way as well.
Try some fishnet stocking , use a corset thingy, you know the middriff thing that holds the stocking, you know likes clips to the stocking,. sexy.
2007-09-25 16:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by friendly advice from maine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is lucky to have someone in his life that cares enough to worry about what he will enjoy. I am lucky if my wife gets out of her pajamas by the time I get home from work.
2007-09-25 16:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Crackoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something that is appealing but not to daring that is also sexy but some what safe, that will surely get his attention.
I'm sure that he will always love you no matter what you wear for he's in love with you not your clothes.
So just use your imagination and let yourself go wild
And congratulations on the birth of your son or daughter
2007-09-25 16:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by doubleg2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you its not going to matter what you wear.i would wear my birthday suit,takes less time and you can get right to it.then again,slow and easy is always better and more fun.lots of foreplay.light candles all around and make love by candlelight,its very sexy and the lighting from the candles is so romantic.have fun.
2007-09-25 17:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋