My boyfriend and I been trying to concieve for 3 months why am I not pregnant yet.?

Question

We've tried for 3 months and used the ovulation kit twice. It was positve on the 10 and we had sex through the 14th and now on the 25th my period has come down. I calculated that since my cycle was 34 days. On the 9th I decided to test and still no luck and I used the kit. I came on on July 21 and then again on August 24 and now September 25, 2007 which is a 31 day cycle help I want to be pregnant before this year is up. I have a good man on my side who wants a baby I think worst than me. Neither one of us has any kids so if anyone have any advise tell me when to test again for ovulation and or give a lot of helping hint to make this thing work. Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Not everyone gets pregnant right when they decide to start trying. Here's some tips to help you out:

1. Don't stress about not being pregnant yet. The stress will make it even less likely that you conceive. Just let it happen on its own time - it might even surprise you!

2. Both of you should try to eat healthier if you're not already, since this will provide optimum conditions for conception. Also, you might want to consider taking a multivitamin, since this adds to your chances even more.

3. If your boyfriend wears briefs, see if you can switch him to boxers. They help keep sperm at a more natural temperature, since they breathe more.

4. Ask a doctor's help too! We're just people on the internet. ;)

Answer 2

3months may seem like but its not, most doctors don’t even recommend couples seek medical advisement till they've been trying for at least a year. Only 25% conceive in the first month of trying. Some people have been TTC for years, 3 months no offense is nothing.

Answer 3

Getting pregnant isn't as easy as it sounds.

First of all, even if you've done everything right, keep in mind that studies have indicated that 75% of conceptions end in miscarriage (most of these due to genetic abnormalities in the baby). It's just that so many of these terminate so soon that most women don't notice.

Second, you have to have been trying for a full year before the medical community considers you to have a problem with Trying to Concieve.

Answer 4

Maybe u are thinking about it too much.... Count 14 days from the 1st day of your period and then sex every other day for two weeks.... Gives his little guys a chance to rebuild the troops up! Worked for me and hubby when trying for child #2. May be a good idea to have him get a sperm count to make sure he is not a low count guy cause then u may have to make adjustments for him (like boxers not briefs).
Good luck.... (make sure u are both ready tho for a baby both emotionally and financially!!!)

Answer 5

3 Months is not nearly enough time to consider a problem. If you are over 35 they say to try 6 months before seeing a specialist. If you are younger, they say to wait a year. My husband and I have been trying for 8 months now so just relax.

Answer 6

3 months isn't very long. If you're under 35, see a specialist after trying for a year. If your over 35, see a specialist after trying for 6 months.

Answer 7

3 months is not a long time to be trying. Nothing at all could be wrong. You just need to be patient, relax and enjoy yourselves, before getting all crazy about it

Answer 8

I would've worry until it's been 6 months to a year of TTC. Best wishes!!!

Answer 9

Maybe God took mercy on the child. Cause the man by your side aint too good if he isn't willing to marry you first.

Answer 10

just quit trying and it will happen and just remember God does everything for a reason maybe he just thinks your not ready yet or he has other plans for you !!

Good luck