i have a problem with my innocent flirting STILL! could someone please help me?

Question

1st ill giv u da facts: wen im arnd boys, i honestly dnt tink bout "flirtin" wid em, i only tink bout havin fun. lik playin f-ball n da street or prizn ball in da backyrd, u kno? da flirtin jus hapns, i sware. i dnt evn kno im flirtin wid em & der r sum tings i dint, or dnt, kno wud b considrd as flirtin. (i had a vry sheltrd life) all fake nams, jus so its not confusin. now da probem: my frend, Tamera, liks dis boy, Dave, who cums ovr 2 his cuzinz house dwn da strEt from me as well as her. da cuzin, John, our frend, 2. i get 2 hang out wid Dave mor often cuz my mom lets me stay ovr a lidl longr & my frends' mom duznt wnt her ovr der cuz she knos my frend liks him. NEwys, dat day i was jus foolin arnd u kno jus bein me. mkin joks' playflly punchin Dave, i mes wid all my frends who live @ johns' house. dey wer der 2. den Dave pix me up & spins me arnd & im dizy & i hang on2 him sos i wont fall den he tackls 2 da grnd. tinkin hes playin i takl him 2 a few times, jus havin fun reslin & i

ask him 2 walk me home, jus da 2nd house dwn. then i ask him 2 giv me a hug. and dat was dat. 1 mor ting durin da visit he sed how'd u get so smart? and u have pretty hair, and he flipped my hair over da bak of da chair i was sittin in. and erlier we had a pillo fight dat he started. we did hav lots of fun do. den later dat night Tamera cums ovr askin me 2 *** 2 dis poetry ting and she mentions dat she asked Dave if he liked me and he sed no. she asked him if he liked her and he sed yes. i asked her to ask him agen and told her only bout the pikking me up ovr his sholder and spinning around once even do he did 2ice. and from dat she had a sour look on her face. shes bin facing these probems wid every guy she likes; day pay mor attention to her friends than her. after dat i realized wut i had dun dat may hav misled him somehow. after dat i kept saying to myself "be aware!" cud u guys plz tell me off da top of ur hed wut a guy wud call flrting? NEthing at all even da smallest tings thanx

Answer 1

Hunnie your lieing to yourself, there is no way in heck (espacially after reading that CUTE question) that you know how to relate to boyz outside being CUTE! THat it, thats your social skillz in action, which makes you a big flirt! Yep, sorry, just a girl trying to be cute, so yep unless you know how to be a deeper friend, and less of a shallow person, your just a flirt....