he just seems to be less outgoin the past 2 weeks like we were always like "ahh i luv ya" and stuff like that but he rarely does that the past couple of weeks and lately when i have been talkin to him i just get so sad i get totally quiet and hes always askin me wats wrong when its him who is makin me sad, how do i tell him he has changed
2007-09-25 14:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when he asks whats wrong tell him exactly how you feel. let him know that he isnt being his usual self......maybe he has lost interest in you or is into someone else and doesnt want to pretend that he still likes you....or he may be having family or school problems..you really should find out whats going on with him.
2007-09-25 14:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by So Confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think my first advise is stop the games of being quiet and talk to him, and if you cannot talk then write him a long letter. Write the letter, hold it for two days, read it and make sure it is what you want to say, then hand it to me (hard copy) and say please read this so we can talk. Then go take a long bath or a walk!
Perhaps what he is going through is hard for him to talk about and share. Perhaps he is ill. Perhaps he is just mood about something at school or work.
The door to open communication is vital for any relationship, friendship or more intimate, to survive.
2007-09-25 21:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be hard, but talking to him is the only way to get things straight. You might find that there' s been something that's bothering him, which is why he isn't himself lately, and maybe you guys will be able to work it out.
2007-09-25 21:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay it out like dude you have changed
2007-09-25 21:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.... You just tell him what you expect, need, want and will live with... You cant change him, he has to do that himself if he wants you bad enough.
2007-09-25 21:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by star_star1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to? Do him a favor - just dump him, and don't torture him first with a lot of talk analyzing your relationship.
2007-09-25 21:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest telling him what you told all of us - It is honest, real , and a valid question.
2007-09-25 21:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he isn't the same person he was 2 weeks ago? Maybe he has cancer or AIDs.
2007-09-25 21:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by honda man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u care about him u should tell him.
2007-09-25 21:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by aquariusgrl93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋