i KNOW i need help, i know my mom needs to know, clearly actions dont tell her. and, i'm gonna break sooner or later. probably sooner. but i dont know what 2say. thats the real problem withthies. i dont know how to ask.
it's not like i hide what i feel well, she could just read what i put upp here and allmy IM's, but no, she truests me toomuch. and, not that truest is a bad thing, but she dosent know. i want to tell, but i dont know how.
how can i w/out making a fool of myself, just get to the point?
2007-09-25 13:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
geeze, i tought i was clear...maybe readint htis'll help
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmGfLPSZ0t44dmioc1noRnXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070925085354AAoATdt
recent question. i know i need help, emotinoaly. or i'm gonna crack
2007-09-25 13:13:58 · update #1
You are so brave to realize that you need help...That is the first (and biggest) step to getting better. My suggestion is that you write out everything you need her to know. Write it just the way you imagine you would say it to her, then give it to her and just sit down while she reads it. Things will flow naturally from there.
All the best.
2007-09-25 13:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If I have a problem, I avoid talking to my mom. But if you simply must speak to your mom, I would just...talk to her. If I have to talk to my mom I'll say, hey mom, can I ask you a question? And the ball just gets rolling from there. If you just say one small thing, such as, can I ask you question, it may just get thigns moving you know? You can start an indepth conversation with a simple comment on the weather...it sounds as though you have a good relationship with your mother..well this shouldn't be to hard for you then. Good luck.
2007-09-25 20:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by High Flyer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK well maybe shes under stress. or not. go up to her look her straight in the eye and say "i need your help mom" but do it with a strong face she'll ask you with what and that's when u gotta tell her how you feel. also you could try talking to a school counselor trust me they help just as well. but you have to talk to her sometime or another, if your dad is emotionally abusing you you have to tell her. good luck.
2007-09-25 20:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ ʇɥbıuoʇ ǝıp sʇǝ1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not talk to her then sit down and write a letter. Explain how you feel and that you need help. If that doesn't work, go to a counselor at school or your family doctor. Is there a family member or friend that you can talk to who would talk to your mom for you? Wish you the best.
2007-09-25 20:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Love being a Mom 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
"Mom, we need to talk, about (what the problem is). When can we do that."
The more you beat around the bush, the more paranoid she will get, until she can't really hear anything you are saying.
Do not ask late at night, when she is in a hurry to somewhere, or when she is distracted.
Best wishes.
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2007-09-25 20:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but it seems like you are more of an adult than your mother is. take charge and make her listen to you. she is your mother and she is supposed to listen to her daughter no matter how tired, busy or distracted she may be.
if she still doesn't want to listen, try talking with one of your counselors at school. that should get her attention.
all the best to you,
Audrey
2007-09-26 04:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and say it. Maybe enlist another adult you trust (teacher, relative) to help you if you don't think she'll take it well.
2007-09-25 20:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I love you.
2007-09-27 06:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Mom, I need help"
2007-09-25 20:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Gaston 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋