men attractive?
I dont mean in a sexual way. I just mean facially. See you sometimes hear straight women say another woman is attractive, but never hear the same from men about another man.
2007-09-25 12:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Nathan 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nope, and it doesn't have anything to do with sex.
By nature women are more confident, more sure of themselves, and they never think twice about complimenting another woman about any reason, from their hair to their bodies to anything sexual. They are honest and down to earth creatures without assumptions when asking intimate or just regular questions.
Us, men, are aaaaalllll the opposite.
You'll never see men going to the bathroom together, or walking holding hands or just laughing together while also hugging during a slumber party for example...
Maybe, once in a while we would -and very oddly- start a very short conversation with someone next to us at the urinals... at work or something like that. But never going together.
Men are more reserved; more shy as much as we hate to acknowledge that; more introverted when it comes to admire another man.
Why?
For two reasons:
-ESTROGEN for her helping greatly in that aspect, something men have but in a very low "dose"...
-And:
-FEAR of being known as "weak" or as "gay".
It's awesome to be sure of our own masculinity, to the point that we could compliment or admire another men as they would with us also...
C'mon men: Let's grow up and learn something good from or delicious creatures: Women.
2007-09-25 13:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heterosexual males and females DO agree to a large degree what is attractive, regardless the sex of the attractive person. How do we know this? Because it is one of the major sources of jealousy and envy. For example, if I'm a plain-looking guy out with my girlfriend and (for example) Tom Cruise appears in our vicinity, I might have a visceral reaction and be somewhat fearful of losing my girlfriend to Tom Cruise right then and there. I might grab her hand or put my arm around her, subconsciously demonstrating some level of possession! Of course, it doesn't even have to be a celebrity, but any attractive male (or at least one I believe my girlfriend would think is attractive). While beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, that doesn't mean there is NOT a lot of commonality of physical traits regarded are attractive within a culture, or indeed within the whole human species. There is! However, as a heterosexual male, my recognition that some other male is attractive (or very likely attractive) in no way means that I'm attracted to him. And, although some heterosexual males (or females) may want to be in the company of attractive people of the same sex, it (by definition) would NOT mean they are attracted to them for sexual reasons, but most likely are attracted to them for social enhancement reasons.
2016-04-06 01:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your culture. In America women are more likley to say another woman is attractive than a man say another man is attractive.
2007-09-25 12:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its more common for women to SAY another female is attractive. men dont really say it as much.
2007-09-25 12:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by theteapot 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Dear Aaron,
If he thinks his beer Buddy's a knockout... Or she likes her new dorm partner... HOW dose that make either one strait?
I think it's more common for men to run hide in the closet... It takes ba||s to admit you're gay.
La Penster
2007-09-25 12:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah women r all like " ur pretty. no u r. no u r the prettiest . nah uh u r. thnxs!" LOL!!!!!!!!! yeah its weird. i never heard men say " ur handsome. no ur!" but just because women r more sencetive then men. men want to act tough and manly and not say that other man r handsome!! HAHAHAHA.
hhmmm men....
2007-09-25 12:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by ................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys think the same thing, they can tell if another man is mpore attractive than they are, but in socirty, they are brought up never to say such things
2007-09-25 12:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Tamika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Straight men are more secretive about it, lest they be called gay. And women often try to turn other guys on or make guys like them by posing as would-be bisexuals.
2007-09-25 12:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men who are uncomfortable with their sexuality can't say if anotherr man is handsome. They always seem to feel uneasy about it. Me, I have no problem. My wife thinks that's so cool.
2007-09-25 13:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes i do
simply cuz like most straight guys find it weired for some reason for guys to like guys
but 7/10 chance that ever guy had a gay experience in his life
and women well most of them dont like aren't as closed about it as men
2007-09-25 12:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by McLovin 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋