She has an attitude that I can't even describe and is rude to everyone. I love my gf but don't know how much longer I can stay here. My gf thinks nothing is wrong with her daughter. This girl has been suspended from school for calling a teacher a ***** and her Mom didn't do anything. Do I stay or go? I'm really thinking of going.
2007-09-25 12:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by whata waste 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are living with them, don't break up, just move out. Tell your girlfriend that you think it's for the best for the relationship for you to reside at another place. When the daughter moves out, then you move back.
2007-09-25 12:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overly permissive mom who's basically abdicating her parental responsibilities by refusing to hold her daughter to any sort of rules or boundaries? Yikes. :-( Living with an out-of-control teen and a mom who refuses to parent her has GOT to be hell on earth.
Are there any other relatives -- the girl's biological father maybe, some grandparents, aunts and uncles, maybe some trusted family friends -- who have noticed the same bad attitude and out-of-control rudeness? If you could get some or all of them to talk to your girlfriend about her daughter, it *might* make an impact? At least your gf will begin to see that it isn't just you complaining; if other family members whose judgment she trusts tell her the same things you do, maybe she'll listen?
If that doesn't work and the daughter's attitude and behavior don't improve, then you might have to leave :-(
2007-09-25 12:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your girlfriend about how you feel? I had a similar situation that involved twins. I just expressed my needs to her and we have been working on it. We just set time aside for ourselves. We talk at night a lot, especially in bed. I've expressed my concern on how the twins are not getting discipline and we have all worked on teaching them a little better. I know that the age difference is big between them but just let her know that you are worried and concerned that the daughters lack of discipline is going to posse a problem for you two if not handled. Reassure her that you love her but something needs to change. I really wish you the best!
2007-09-25 14:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a package deal. If you don't like the daughter- go. If the relationship is good- she will still be the one for you when her daughter grows up and moves out.
2007-09-25 12:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....id prolly knock the girl out hoping i knocked some sense into her. thank god the girl I'm talking too as toddlers 3 and 5 and they behave well cuz id prolly lose my mind if they were bad as kids.
2007-09-25 12:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only leave if you are possitive you cant handle it anymore cause her daughter comes with her its like a package deal
2007-09-25 12:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by ashkat93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay. I'm about her age and TRUST me she'll be out of it in more then one year, less then three.
2007-09-25 12:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAMA SAiD T0 KN0CK Y0U 0UT HAHA.
2007-09-25 12:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by .310. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the daughter is what we call a *** trophy or a vaginal dripping. Best thing is ignore the daughter you confused dyke
2007-09-25 12:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Amber W 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋