I hate them pack rats on my husband side of his family.
2007-09-25 10:32:19 · 15 answers · asked by PrettyAKA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't say hate i would say dislike them.I've been with my husband for 18yrs.We have 5 kids between the both of us 24,23,22 I have a child who is 20 and we have one together 15.My 20yr old who is not his but he raised her as if she was his... they never accepted her so i guess it stems from them not accepting me.My mother in law who raised my step kids talked about me in front of them most of thier lives & now I'm not really close to them.My differences are bcs of this and i tried my best to have a close relationship with his parents,1 sister-in-law & 5 brother-in-laws for yrs. I dont go there(on special occasions & not special occ) bcs i dont want to be gawked at bcs i'm there and then when i leave to be talked about when i'm gone.I just avoid them all together...just the way i like it.My husband knows that I dont care to see or be around his family...we seperated for 6mths bcs of them.He choose his family over our family....That hurt & he realized that we are his family.We are happy and what more can i ask for....I'm sure that not all In-laws are the same just i was unfortunate to end up with not so loving In-laws.Hope this helps you out....Take care
I really like Spacious choice of words....good one
2007-09-25 11:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by whoknows? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there done that.. and i have 5 sis-in-laws and 1 bro-in-law. It was hard and after 7yrs we are now just getting along. There is soooo much gossip about everybody even among themselves and for awhile i wanted out because i didn't come from a family like that, not that my family is perfect but we raised to be very close to family and that iam so when i meet his family i was the new thing to be gossiped about it and it was hard.. But i noticed that i didn't try as hard as i should have but it just depends what ur situation is..
GOOD LUCK
2007-09-25 17:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me.
Married for 23 years and get along with the in-laws just fine. Sure over the years we've had our disagreements, but they are good people, and when the chips were down they stood by me. And I did the same for them. They are a part of my family, and you can't ask for more than that.
2007-09-25 17:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as my in-laws are concerned, my father in law is good ****, he is fun to hang and party with. My mother in law on the other hand is a fat and hateful c*nt. She thinks that she is entitled to live like a queen and tries to make the rules in the house and can't hold a job. She even cut off humpiing the father in law. She is a sh*thead and charges my old lady to watch the kids. Even the kids don't want to go to her house.
2007-09-25 17:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by br_wy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my in laws and have never had a problem with them i got lucky i guess cuz i always hear horrible stories but the ook me in like family right away and i love the fact that they dont stick up for my husband just because its their son or family they will tell him when he is bein an *** sorry you got crappy ones
2007-09-25 17:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't say i hate them but i will say i can't stand them they are stuck up and over the top on very selfish they don't think about anyone else unless you are in the family circle and they are very picky about who comes to the family functions I just don't like them and I don't really like to be around them. They are just really nerve recking and nosy I just wish they would fall off the face of the earth.
2007-09-25 17:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't hate my in-law. i mostly get annoyed. he fights me on a daily basis just to be argumentative. only later to adjust things the way i fixed them because he realizes i may have fixed something for a reason. example, using a box to block the baby from the cat food so the baby doesn't eat it. he'll throw the box across the room to feel superior. he did this for two months. then he caught the baby eating the cat food. LIGHT BULB!!! now he puts the box in that spot so the baby doesn't get to the cat food.
2007-09-25 17:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such a STRONG word -
While we tend to get along, they do sometimes get overbearing (especially the M-I-L). I'm just glad her step dad puts up with her - if he ever leaves I do NOT want her coming to live with us !!!
I DO wish we lived further away than we do - 1 mile is too close for either her parents or mine :) Oh well....
2007-09-25 17:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better get over it!!! Never tell hubby that either. You might not want him choosing sides, he might not side with you. And what do you care if their pack rats? You don't live with them do you? Good Luck
2007-09-25 17:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely a BIG YES to me. Everything I do seems wrong to them, their son is always the BEST and I'm always the one giving TROUBLES!!. Well I don't really care, as long as they don't cross my line that will be fine, if not, they're gonna see my worst side ever...haha
2007-09-25 17:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbly_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋