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Question

my sstep mom is much a bi*** she so mean and always says i wish id,nt marry your dad what do ido

Answer 1

Schools out.


You can always tell...

Answer 2

I understand where you're coming from here. Ok you've got a few options:
1) Go live with a different family member.
2) Go to boarding school.
3) Speak to your dad about how this affecting you, & hopefully he can sort her out.
4) Get a calender & count down the days until you can move out. This will keep you going & make it more bearable.
5) Just try to avoid her as much as possible.

Good luck with this. I know how tough things can be with stepparents - try not to let her get to you so much, it'll just make you an unhappy person. Just remember that's it's not a permanent situation; there is an end in sight!

Answer 3

Nothing. When you grow up and move out you can have your own life. In the meantime, you're only going to make things worse if you act like a brat or try to break them up. Just be polite but largely ignore her. Maybe have a talk with your dad about your step-mom's role in your life. In her home, she has a right to set rules, but some issues are strictly for your real mom and dad to decide (parenting issues) and your step-mom should keep her mouth shut on those.

Answer 4

That has to be very frustrating and disappointing for you!

So often we focus on someone outside ourselves, thinking that they are the problem and that they need to change in order for us to be happy. The truth is that who they are and how they behave is really their business, and the only thing we have control over is how we choose to respond to what is happening in front of us.

If we tell ourselves that our step mom is mean and rude, that is all we will see and react to. If we tell ourselves that maybe she is hurting, scared, lonely, and sad, we tend to be more empathetic and understanding, and kind ourselves.

If you try this, as hard as it may be to believe now, she may become your good friend.

Answer 5

Tell her to either talk to your Dad and try to work things out, or get a divorce. Because your poor dad does not deserve a wife that doesn't really love him. Your dad would be better off with a woman who treats him well, cares about him and truly loves him for the wonderful person and father he is.

Answer 6

Why do you HATE her - it is VERY hard to be married to someone with kids from a previous relationship and raise them. Being a stepmother is one of the hardest jobs in the world!!! I doubt she is always mean, I bet you are a real treat too sometimes.

Answer 7

If she doesn't want to be married to your dad, tell her to get a divorce! Or video tape her saying things like that and show it to your dad. I'm sure he'll file for the divorce.

Answer 8

If you're old enough you can move out or try to live with your real mom (assuming that's a real option). Otherwise you'll just have to hope your dad decides to dump the woman. I wouldn't try turning your dad on her though because this could create problems between you and your dad.

Answer 9

Try to seperate yourself from your parents' anger towards each other. You have to understand that she's not saying that she never wished you were born. Support both your parents, but try to stay out of it. When she says stuff like that, tell her that she needs to talk to your dad and that you don't want to hear it, because it's upsetting to you.

Answer 10

Unfortunately there isn't much you can do if your Dad and his wife are having troubles. Its wrong for her to take that out on you, and you should talk to your Dad about that, but otherwise stay out of it if you can.

Answer 11

Count the days until you can move out of the house. Your dad will have to see your step mom for who she is all by himself.