Anything that has to do with my more "private" parts of my body she freaks out and blames it on sex and pregnacy. I am having sex(I've only had sex with one boy and we've been dating for 3 years), but I'm still a teenager and scared about somethings that are happening. How do I ask her things with out freaking out?
2007-09-25 10:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by Cynthia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She isn't going to help you, even though she should. Go talk to Planned Parenthood or a doctor.
2007-09-25 10:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people, male or female, find talking about intimate relations uncomfortable because their parents did not talk to them. Since you know she has problems, how about an aunt you trust. Or, make an appointment for Planned Parenthood to help answer those quetions. Also, you to the library and look for the book "Talking to Your Kids About Sex: by Mark Laaser.
Perhaps she is also afraid that if you are asking those types of questions, that you are going to or are having intimate relations (sexual intercourse) with your boyfriend. And, there is always the school nurse or your health education teacher.
I sure hope you are using a condom for protection not only from pregnancy but from social diseases including HIV/Aids.
2007-09-25 17:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you pretty much either have to a) try to sit her down and get her to talk to you one-on-one. or b) find another adult you feel comfortable talkint with this stuff about. If your mother is not willing to have those talks with you, you're still going to need to be educated. Maybe if you have an older sister or aunt or a friend's parent that you are close with and they can help you out.
2007-09-25 17:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by pryncess_mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, why do you have the number 69 at the end of your name?
2007-09-25 17:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋